Originally posted by rainee:
[b]
I met my dear here in the forum as well. So I know what you are
talking about.
Nevertheless, it is a risk one takes when you go out and meet
someone you do not really know. For me, I only went to meet my bf
after we have communicated countless times over the Net and after
we have been talking via phone and webcam.
That is the precaution every girl should take. Never go out with
someone you have only exchanged views one or two time, much worse
someone you don't really know about. So understand that when
something happened, you shoulder part of the blame as well.
If what happened between quinsy and devil really happened, what she
can do is let go of this episode, learn something from it and grow
up. One cannot
learn until she has admitted her mistake...[/b]
again shows the double standard, why she has to admit her
mistake when she was taken advantage of?
why not devil?why the burden of admitting is on her? she is the
victim.
even though you say you are not siding with anyone, this statement
itself says that she is wrong and not devil
