Finally broke up..why m still so devastated?

last SG · 2007-05-13T21:42:57+00:00

kuri, the fact that u can't get over him is because in ur world, he is still the guy u used to know. now, it's OVER. he's no longer the person u used to have...

dreamykite SG

I understand it is hard to forget someone you love. But Kuri, life still goes on. Just tell yourself, he is not the good guy you are looking for afterall. Know more people, break out of this vicious cycle. hope you can overcome this ordeal. love hurts but dont be discourage by it. You got to help yourself to pull through and I am sure you can Wink

shendia0 SG

Perhapes you have been with him for too long thus you can’t forget him. Try mixing with some friends and go out more. I guarantee you that you will be able to forget him in less than a month, but that method isn’t a cure at all thats temporary to relief you off him. Take care

ifish SG

if u want to talk, u can talk to me if u dont mind telling ur story to a complete stranger..

feel free to pm me Wink

smudgey SG

Kuri, talk to ur friends.

if they are really your friends, they won't ask u for prove or whatnot. they'll know you are not lying.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

/pat pat.. Take care.. Smile

dork3d SG

It's a decision you've made and you've stand by it...

Memories of good and bad will forever be around if you choose to lock them in your mind and heart...

Time to let go and see other perspectives in life and find new meanings to erase them off...

You have all of us here to support you... Be strong and be firm...

Me believe you'll make this through...

0tah SG

suan le la...hao ma bu chi hui tou chao...
good horse don eat the grass it hab walked past?

kalach SG

Common, guys and gals is different. Most of the time, after a girl breaks up, the guy that love her most will accompany her thru times like this after breakup and only during this time the girl will feel loved, well, girl having another bf like this not very strange, but if a gal broke up wif a guy, very seldom that the gal will be there for the guy. lols.

Well, TS, try to look beside u if u see guys like this. Well, I am just stating from my own experience tho.

kuri SG

my frds made me promise i wont care bout him anymore..but i just cant..i willed myself to keep to ignoring his calls n smses but i cant stop caring.i gave his dad a sms this evening bout smt i know to try to help him mayb i m stupid but honestly i hav to admit that even tho i believe with time n after much pain i’d eventually move on i wont b able to cease to care for him totally.the scope will b different but i’d still care.everybody who heard the story i had with this ass will say i m stupid but i loved him it’s true.even with so much hurt he has inflicted upon me,i sincerely wish for his well-being and that things will eventually work out for him.now i just hope i can find things to do to ease my pain..hurts so bad couldnt rest when i closed my eyes..

kuri SG

anyway for those who had asked wat happened is somewat http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=238569&page=13 onwards continued n intensified.

bladez87 SG

well then. although we are strangers here in the forums, we do go outings and make friends. but regardless, you can confide in us in sgf. we will listen to you, and support you in the dark moments of your life.

really, i think you are foolishly in love. so much so that you cant pull yourself out. care for him is alright. but you should not let him take advantage of this. everyone has the rights to care for someone , but that does not always mean the caring is mutual. you need someone to call for you too, or else even if your feelings is like a sea, 1 day also will be drained de...

this is call 2 way traffic...what goes 1 way, empties the other.

soulwinner SG

It will be over soon..
cheer up.. Very Happy

bladez87 SG

right now...i think she is sad. devastated. nothing we say will be of help to her. she just needs someone to pour her woes out to. lend a shoulder, give some tissues.

words would do no help to someone who is devastated. lets just wish her the best...and that she can walk out of this dark period asap.

HolySniper SG

over time the feelings will dull..

but there will always be times when u feel lonely n sad n u regretted e decision u made.. den u will began to try contact him again and stuffs.. for ur own good, dun do tat.. trust me.. just let it go.. Sad

kalach SG

Well, cheer up my dear, you can be a better person that way. Prove to him, you can be a better person without bastard like him!

jojobeach SG

You are not stupid, you are just being NORMAL.
What you are going through is a phase of SELF-DOUBT.
It is the most common psyche EVERYONE goes through after a break-up.

Do not worry, it shall pass. ALL relationship be it good one or bad ones are NOT immune to this phase. After you are done with this phase, you will proceed to the recovery phase.

Just remember this, when your self-doubt threatens to overwhelm you with images of good times together.
Tell yourself this. Even if you turn back, the relationship WILL NEVER be the same anymore. The good times is just the PAST. Now it is time to look FORWARD to your future.

note: I read the old thread. And wooo hooo girl, that guy knows how to jerk you around real good.

rainee SG

Dun worry, I am sure you can find someone better Smile

For now, just grieve for a while, then realize that life moves on. Indulge in some activities that will cheer you up, go out with some frens, etc

yasusenpai SG

Be brave and strong.

dcx SG

Be strong.

gobez14 SG

take care u will get beta 1

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