I know I've said I will never post here again but Im still
reading threads here and I still see guys having problems with
women, hence my posting. It's very disappointing to see why our
Singapore women posters have a certain mindset about guys like
being "gentlemen, privilege to be used by the girl you like etc.. "
No offence to you BBB.
Look guys, if you want to be a gentleman it has to be from your own
character/personality, don't fake it just to win someone's heart,
especially from a love interest. There's a limit to being a
gentleman. When the situation calls for it, help. On the other
hand, what about when the guy needs help, will the girl help huh?
(talk about sexual equality!)
For eg. you know after helping her or being made use of, when you
are of no more use, she starts being less friendly, then you know
what kind of person you are dealing with. For me personally, I
won't help her anymore. There's a saying "fool me once shame on
you, fool me twice shame on me." I've got better girls to take care
of.
Guys, it's ok to feel upset but don't take women personally. Some
are nice and some are not so nice. But they operate similarly. When
they dislike you, they will give all sorts of reasons not to be
with you. Just bow out gracefully and continue on your next girl.
There's absolutely no reason for you to keep harping on the fact
she disappointed you. So what? It's done. You can't reverse time.
Just be careful when you are dealing with the opposite sex. You
never know why they treat you so nice. Don't get so excited when
suddenly she calls you. Always be cautious and rational when it
comes to relationships.
cheers.
doko
