should i or should i not?

IfUWantHateMe SG · 2007-05-22T10:23:14+00:00

very good advice.....i second to that

IfUWantHateMe SG

i like this girl "A" since sec 1..now i sec 4 le..i sec1 like her tat time..she knows..but i was too shy so i didnt confess..times pass the feelings faded..i was attached to another girl "B" at late sec3..then i realise i was just finding a sub for "A"..so i broke off with "B"..
i msg "A" recently..she still seems nice..

then i realise i still like her...then this year Olvl year le..

(no asking of pics or frenster pls..)

shld i go for it?

ditzy SG

No, finish your o levels first. Laughing

zeny SG

bro, I got the same problem as you in the past but in the end I almost flunk my O level becos of this BGR. The end result she got into uni earlier than me and found a better bf.

I even know what you will do .

See if I am rite.

She will say that she will not be able to have a relationship cos her o level is near and ask you to wait. You wait but still want to be with her. Then your result will be average.

Mark my words.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

yar. exam more important.

ChingAlvin SG

Study first! I not even gonna think of BGR until after NS! Ok la… I not handsome ma..

Scania N113CRB luver SG

Dont say urself until like that lah .

Anyway ya , TS , Im taking my O lvls this year ...and i wont get BGR to affect my results ... So , i think its better for you to finish your exams first then contact the girl again ..

Sry for dampening your spirits but erm , for me , i only scared one thing . I scared that when i went to contact the girl i like after my Os , i then found out that she's attached . Anyway thats my case and dont worry too much ! Very Happy

soulwinner SG

I agreed totally.. Very Happy

caleb_chiang SG

The best is... wait till you are in working world... Cos BGR would normally affect your best performance in your studies. Wink

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Yar. TS, Im retaking my O level this year.. Relationship can wait, but result can't. I bet you don't want to be like me ruin by BGR during O level period bah..

allentyb SG

just focus on your studies, first

soulwinner SG

I'm not a chio bu Mad
So nobody want me... Crying or Very sad

curryman SG

grow up lst

eagle SG

Agree. Finish O levels first. So near yet so far...

Get into JC -> Uni

And u hv all the time u want after O levels and before JC.

soulwinner SG

Wait till O level is over... Mr. Green

ifish SG

o level first!!

ls-tOrMeNt SG

Exams first TS.

Dun let it affect your studies. After all, studies is what matters more in this educated world.

Eiizumi SG

Yup. Those who didn’t pass O level during my days were mostly those with BGRs. Surprisingly.

eagle SG

I did rather badly because of a single humanities which got C6 Sad

And an English which got B3

joce SG

I told my son study first, relationship shoud put a side first. But say is easier than do. You yourslef must know what are you doing.

eagle SG

problem is... if u get into bgr now, u still hv 2 yrs of jc, 2 yrs of army, 4 yrs of uni (if go jc-uni path), which means 8 more years before u start to work.

Also, u will probably need 1 -2 years of work to save up enuff money before anything else...

Are u confident of holding a relationship for 10 yrs if u start so early?