jacqn SG i know this question must have been asked a lot of times. but is there really no purely friendship between a guy and a gal? if too close with the opposite sex, the other will start to think more. how to prevent hurt in this case?
*=Optimus=* SG I am very close to several female friends of mine, so of em so close that even my classmates tot we were going steady together, but still we're only close friends, why not?
jacqn SG but if too close, then the other party will start thinking that still have chance, dont want to hurt the person, but its not right to lead him on. but then, i just lost a friend..
FBI SG msut clarify to him that u only wanna b friends lo.. if he don understand then it's not your fault also
smudgey SG be totally honest with one another. I have a couple of great guy friends with whom we have (through conversations) declared that we would not be interested in one another, and will be friends only. that worked. till now, I'm still buddies with them!
smudgey SG that's why it's either you be TOTALLY honest with your feelings, or drop hints that you like someone else
AndrewPKYap SG how about getting hurt is a minor consequence of a great friendship? possibility of hurt should not get in the way of a wonderful relationship as friends...
sweetevil SG The crucial rule in a boy-girl buddyship is never to fall in love. But there may be exceptions. #1 - Never treat him/her too nice. #2 - He/She should get clear of his/her feelings
fairlady_xoxo SG Haha you will come to the point it will decide for you...no point trying to stop it....just let it happen and see what happens....coz i tried to prevent it....didn't work anyways
