Seriously, you don't need other people to help support whatever
course of action you choose to take.
On my part, I would choose option A. In the end, it's how she
chooses to take the news that matters.
At the end of the day, though, I won't stop you from taking Option
B if that's what you want. I only hope that if you do make a
choice, you would stick with it and have no regrets at all.