Well i gotta agree...
cos during NS, the world you two live in are TOTALLY different...
for you it's a world of men, training, for her, it's a world of
work? sch? outings etc ...
often the gal feels lonely, feels that the guy cant understand
her...
so in this time... the two really need to be more understanding,
more determination...
It's difficult but i've seen it work...