How do i tell if a girl likes me (too)?

last SG · 2007-05-13T14:56:20+00:00

Yes! Let's get through this together!

shadez SG

I like this girl. But i don't know if she likes me the same...

I have went out with her 1 on 1 on numerous occasions. (girls, would you go out 1 on 1 with a guy you don't LIKE?)
We get along quite well and can talk about things easily. I'm more of the quiet one...
I have her on my mind most of the time, and i always anticipate a call or message from her on my mobile.
But she doesn't sms or call me frequently and has not once msg me to ask me "how am i feeling etc.."
As you know, if you love someone and don't get much feedback from the person, it feels miserable.

So now, im confused. Could any kind soul(s) share his/her opinion with me?

I appreciate it. Thanks.

SGpork SG

we out many times..but she wont send regards to me..
most prolly..she just treat u as fren lei..

Rolling Eyes

if not...why not u try sending her..n see whats the reply.
or best..try to ask..
but not too open n obvious

hatemeifuwantto SG

since u close to her go ask her who she like lo…

allentyb SG

Rolling Eyes

YA.YA SG

Just play along... perhaps you can try to message her once in while.... hmm if she reali likes you then great! if not den nvm look for another Laughing

Sheepophile SG

unless really dun like, no harm accepting dates meh. if go out with u 1 on 1 still got chance, but if dun really sms u, maybe interest not really high.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

It's very differenciate between wheather the girl like you or treating you as friend. hmM~

ifish SG

the gal can be out with u one-on-one
the gal can be smsing u like 10 sms per day
the gal can be trying to be super close to you

but at the end of the day, if u like her just tell her.
i know this feeling sux but thats how it goes.

Be prepared for bad news though but we anticipating good news from u

goodluck

jojobeach SG

Girls like to be "chased".
Just continue going out with her on dates lah.
As long as she don't reject you outright or put you on the back burner.
Simply enjoy the companionship for as long as it last.

When the time is right, ask her if she would like to be in a committed relationship with you.
Timing is everything.

aiglosicicle SG

maybe you could get a friend you trust to help you find out

kalach SG

x2 Very Happy

fishyday SG

i'm a girl , so i can say... yes i would personally go out with a guy that i don't like , you noe ... chill out and stuff...

but hey , some girls like me like some initiative !!! go out there boy and try to be a little less shy ... okies ??

anyways , be patient even tho she's might not be responding to you, you might win her over just be doing just that =))

ghimpheng SG

look out for hints

if she everytime ask you out then act like very close to you it might be it

X-men SG

To find out....

just ask

Mr. Green

WiNtEr'SkiLL SG

Very Happy

MrSotong SG

lol ...

Then what if the gurl dun like you but you like her ;D

Then the TS got to make her like him and not asking if the gurl like him ;D

Ermmmm. ..... ... .. . . .

Don't ASK her if she ever likes you ... < Spoilt d relationship ...

Just ask her out for movies , lunch , gif flowers etc ...

Gd lukz ...

Age 13-16 -Unlikely to have a gf or bf [Puppy love Very Happy ]

Age 17-xx - Yes "Sure have d if u take d effort"

Dun gif up there is always SG FORUMs !

yihao93 SG

of course,
~HH~ too Laughing

FBI SG

talks to u most of the times..

likes to play with u..

care and concern abt u?

Vel Vel SG

No, wont go out with guys i dun like.
but yes, will go out with guys i treat as frens.
See the difference?
so u cant tell jus based on her willingness to go out with u.

But u can open up your hints more if u dun dare to tell her straight u like her. then u can try to figure things out from her response.
for e.g.
how much would u rate me if i am your bf? etc etc

JasonC SG

she doesn't hate you, neither do you repulse her. that's all you can be certain of.

Not to burst your bubble, but don't be too shocked to receive a "let's be friends" and "i've never knew you like me" kind of answer. Sad