What should I do ?

soulwinner SG

If I have a female friend who is going to hurt herself

because she did badly for a test
A big fight occur in her family
All her close friend left her

She is single and currently in a pre u ...

What can I do to help her??? Crying or Very sad

I am very confused now...

Gackt247 SG

Be her friend lor.. be her listening ear lor.. be her pillar of support lor..

soulwinner SG

I have been doing..
I am afraid that she might be emotionally attrached to me..
I have been seeing her out of concern frequently.. Crying or Very sad

Gackt247 SG

wah.. den u put it very clearly tt u are there for her as a concerned friend.

soulwinner SG

I saw her new wound in her stomach today..
I really pity her..
such a nice and sweet gal... Crying or Very sad

soulwinner SG

Maybe I should allow her to cut me…

Gackt247 SG

cutting oneself will be a passing phase. it will stop at some ptt of time. but why not earlier. be there for her. persuade her not to self-mutilate herself.

soulwinner SG

Can't sleep now..
Must give her a call..
Thought of sending her to sch.. :

soulwinner SG

I don't understand why some nice gal like to do this..

soulwinner SG

But I am confused whether is this a right time...
I have a gf...

Crying or Very sad

soulwinner SG

I am a trained counsellor...
But I never handle gal case before... Crying or Very sad Mad

Gackt247 SG

Walao.. u only treat her as a fren right? Den it's ok u show concer to her.. she needs it. But u have to be clear tt u are only acting in good faith bcoz u care for her as a fren.

If u r attracted to her den tt's another matter. But i feel it's not the time to stir in r/s stuff. Only make things more complicated.

soulwinner SG

Thank for a word of concern...
I am faithful to my gf..

Gackt247 SG

aiya..

ur fren is juz complicating the mess she's already in. make her aware of tt. guide her so tt she'll learn to manage her problems objectively and learn to take things with a pinch of salt.

good luck for ur fren. Wink

soulwinner SG

Dear lord Jesus...
Why have you forsaken my friend qianqi?
I am helpless now but Lord i know u love her..
I pray that you restore peace in her, comfort her..
Reveal you unfailing love to her
Father I pray protect her through this night till I am home with you
Lord protect me from all evil thought and deliver you goodness...

I the mighty Lord JESUS I prayed.. Amen...

I prayer for her until i am home with the Lord..

soulwinner SG

Very hard... She's is Over stress..

soulwinner SG

I should maybe bring her to my house
and get my maid to look after her...

They will at least lighten my worried..

Gackt247 SG

now now.. tt's going over board n out of ur way.. i duno la.. u juz do wat u feel is right.

firediviner SG

hmmm...i hope ur worry is true...

if u bring this gerl to ur house....u noe u r lokking for trouble...

first ur gf will suspect u, and den u two might develop feeling forone another...

Really, u as a counsellor pls use ur head and not ur heart....

caring for her and handpecking her is diff issue...

wake up b4 sumthing happens.

Gackt247 SG

i agree.. not proper to bring her to ur place.