Zzz your thinking smacks of immaturity. You want a gf just for
the sake of having one.
Be mindful, you want to enter a relationship with someone else, a
fellow human being. Even when animals can have feelings, what about
a human?
Ask yourself, why you want a gf for? To give you a sense of
security? There's no point getting a gf as a security blanket. You
just view her as a source of security, not a source of love.
Put yourself in her shoes, would you want to be treated like that?
Imagine your gf telling her friends, "Oh my bf is so and so. Now I
got bf, I am no more that no-friends person."
And given your situation, you are probably no more than 18 years
old. There's still a long path ahead of you.
Please hor, still the same naggy reminders.
Go expand your social circle. Your teenage years are the best time
to know friends. Join a CCA and actually try to achieve something
there. Also, care about the grades. Think about your parents who
earn so hard just to put you to school.
Besides, what are your motives to get a gf? Love? Sense of
security? To bed her? To show off to others?
For you, please think thrice before getting a gf. Your reason for
getting one is rather shaky.
And if you think I am just lao ah peh with some generation gap, I
tell you I am only 18 this year.
And yes, I do not have a gf and not looking for one.
Cos I do not want to be a jerk and have a gf for the wrong
reasons.
Classmates tease then tease lor. Nothing wrong not being attached
what.
As long as you know what you are doing can liao.
