honestly, if she doesn't appreciate you, then move on. Moreover,
there seems to be somebody who makes you feel better and more
appreciated about yourself. quite honestly, I worry your current
relationship will eat you inside out, because you're beginning to
feel grumpy about it already.
I may be wrong, but just a guess.
But if a friend shows concern for you and you can develop feelings
for her already, then there really is a problem with your currect
relationship. I don't know if it's with you or her.