Would you love someone poor in Singapore?

last SG · 2007-03-05T23:04:42+00:00

uh uh ...bt dnt b kortek n kena eaten by others....work smart to get $ ....

Squiggly SG

Hmmmm... interesting thought, and I thought only girls worry about that... On a more serious note, being in a r/ship isn't just about sharing bills... It's sharing a life together, the good and the bad...

So what is "enough"???? Since when is it ever "enough"?

There are families whose combined income is not less than $3k a month, sure they live in a smaller house, they cannot enjoy some of the luxuries... But that doesn't mean they cannot live a fulfilling and happy life together right?

If you are concerned about her education level, maybe you can help the girl in question to up-grade herself? These days, there are many schemes provided by the government to help people like her...

I agree that life isn't easy in Singapore... But that doesn't mean you cannot achieve anything without the paper qualifications... that shouldn't stop anyone from achieving... If you want it, want it bad enough, you will know how to work towards it.

All the best!

soulwinner SG

Hmmm.. You have road to choose can either remain poor or like my fight all my way though to become rich and success...I am on the process to becoming successful so if u need advice or just chit chat u can PM me... Very Happy

sgFish SG

poor yes. unintelligent no

elindra SG

A guy posting this?
Excuse me while I laugh Laughing

NotFromVenus SG

Even the government also don't support the poor, since the GST is for the welfare.
Cool

R3SsH|n SG

how come your name got question mark?

Sakuraflower SG

u post a bit strange ...

r u a female or male... just curious!

the decision is up to u , if u chose money or love then ok.......

Kenashi SG

Trust yr heart.
furthermore, lesser income won't starve in singapore
anyway, u sure she is the one u going to marry??

Space1999 SG

why dont you work on yourself first?its the guy responsibility to make more money to keep the woman happy! !

T.Ryousuke SG

Confirm u r 1 not.

Space1999 SG

huh?

T.Ryousuke SG

100%

FBI SG

the best is to find somone who is willing to go thru thick and thin with u!

jus like the gal i wooing now

T.Ryousuke SG

Not many liddat, u very lucky.

UandMe SG

u mean she can't work as a salegirl, waitress or something?

but seriously i'll say wait for another, because u sound like u will regret next time if someone better appears.

UandMe SG

eh, u still wooing how u know...

MS SG

Hi Love?
Pls allow me to rephrase your passage. Perhaps it may shed some light to your concept.

I am a guy. It's a fact that living in Singapore is a very tough one if there isn't enough money to go by. What happens if in the choice of a partner, there appears to be many however the dilemmna is who to choose? Someone you love or someone whom you can foresee to have a future with especially in the area of health?

I am handdicapped & hesitating to go after someone I like the reason being she's healthy, physically complete but most important has a heart of gold. I know many of you will say to go after my love but what happens 10 or 20 years down the road when the realities of life steps in. It's tough for a guy who has to rely on wheelchair to support a family all by himself here in Singapore. My wife will have to slog instead. I am talking about the average family here.

What would you do if you are just an average disabled guy this choice presents itself to you. Should I wait go for her should I shy away due to my disability?

When it's love you're talking. Regardless whether it's in good times or not, the girl sticks with you. You're sure that you're more wealthier than her. Are you sure tomorrow you still have your entire body intact? By then no amount of money can buy you the loss of limbs or health. By then you could easily be her liability if you are not strong enough in the mind. I am not discriminating against handicapped or sick people as there're many of them with greatness in the mind and heart where even many healthy people cannot match. It is to help you understand the priorities in a relationship. In a relationship, money may be impt to help sustain the bread. But at times of adversity, it is the true love between the couple which holds the relationship together even when there is no bread.

alexkusu SG

some say love can be cultivated.

marry her for money, cultivate love later.

Ito_^ SG

i lub i lub i lub lub lub! Laughing

Teh6 SG

Hey bro,

Do U know one thing, U choose pple, Pple at the same time is choosing u oso, look into a mirror and start to ask urself are u really that good?

If the answer is no, then u can't expect too much from other pple mah..

BTW Do u have that type of "feeling" towards that gal u mentioned, if have then just go for it, or else u will regret later on..

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