People just don't take me seriously, do they?

zeny SG

1) friends come and go. Since life is so wide and open why borther so much?

2) Next time when you have a gf, do you think you have lots of time for your friends?

redstone SG

Hey man, I'm facing the same problem, take a look at my thread here in AA. Crying or Very sad

For me... most of the times it's like I'm invisible. Example, there's this guy I was quite close to last time, so I'll ask him "hey, let's go for lunch, tell me when you're going". Then, he just reply "Mmm" and continue to do his work. Then the next thing I know, he left without me. This isn't the first time, many outings I wasn't informed of.

I do make efforts to try and chat and make friends, but this is very slow and I don't seem to be making progress. I'm still being treated like non existant. Being rejected from project grouping even though the group is not full. the excuse? "Ask him", "ask her" (ask other members) and it'll just go one huge circle over and over again. Or they'll say "next time see how lorr" on MSN when I talked to one of them.

Crying or Very sad

ditzy SG

It doesn't help anymore comparing game cartridge sales to console sales. Laughing

starblue SG

when you keep letting people take advantage of you, there is only one person to be blamed for it.

you.

so i got just one piece of advice for you, my man.

grow some balls.

you don't like the way your "friends" treat you? be confident to point it out. or leave the "friendship" and seek for greener pastures. you can do better than that, you sound like a sincere friend.

Darkness_hacker99 SG

Next time if your friend where to borrow money from you, do the following:

1) Take their photo as record.

2) Photocopy their IC

3) Photocopy the garantor's IC.

4) Thumbprint.

5) Write an IOU.

jianfish9 SG

Your frens kind of suck. Don't force yourself. Find some friends that are really compatible and stick with them will do.

Sometimes, you also have to adapt. Learn to play DotA or stuff. You may suck at its ok. Nobody want to pray with pro everytime.
Like for KTV, I absolutely hate it at first but I did try it out and it wasn't too bad. Especially when you are tipsy.

Try be more assertive will do and don't get pushed around.

_n00b_ SG

Laughing

boka SG

I used to be like this too,ppl tried to capitalised on me for their gains.
I however,never lack friends.

Well what i want to put across to u is asking u not to potray an image that others might see u as a 'back up'.
Never start give others the privileges too soon.
because when that does happen,friends will not look to you as a true friend but an object that will benifit them.
Show ur emotions,show ur angry when others put u down when it should not have been that way.
By keep the silent,you are being dominated.

bonkysleuth SG

Hmm. Yours an extreme introvert case? Don't despair anyway. Do you know that introverts are actually the ones who think before they spill anything out of the mouths and are generally more considerate to others' feelings, opinions, etc.

Be proud to be an introvert, man. And yea, anime are cool things. Don'lt let the others take too much advantage of you. In fact, sometimes you should really fire up a bit, show them the 'temper' and how short a fuse you have. Not on too much occasions though, just once in a while to let the others know that you are not to be taken advantage and lightly of.

All the best in your advances.

Mr. Green

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