Tired of life

N0body SG

when i was small i have big dreams high hopes
therefore straight after my army i went straight into business.
i also went into my university studies in ntu
handling both at the same time cos i want to succeed in life
i want to make my parents proud of me.let pple envy me..
but well
now i am 26.i have nothing.
i failed in my business with over 50k debts
have cleared abt 30k but still holding to 20k debts
i neglect my studies n now i m repeating my studies..
i am such a useless fucker.
i dunno when i can fight back or rather will i succeed in life?
i got a gf .she been very gd to me.but i cant promise her anything with the fucking situation now.
i m so useless..
i m 26 ALREADY! and i achieve NOTHING!

ok.thks for reading..i jus wan to say out my feelings.

from a useless person

seow SG

Just try to hold out, someone like you who are willing to take big risks may just make it big one day.

yihao93 SG

26, u still have a long way to go,
when theres a will. theres a way Very Happy

Father Lim SG

ambitious aren't you... maybe u placed your priorities wrong earlier...
26 is not too old to make a new start,,,, after all, you have just started working not long....

do i know u ?? u seem to be from my batch...
me also sama sama same time as u in NTU lei...

R3SsH|n SG

26 is still young...

guys start to show true potential wthen they are 30+ 40..

browniebaobao SG

very familiar..
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=250241&page=0

N0body SG

father lim i jus wish stay anonoyomus
well i know 26 is still young but the problems i m facing is not letting me breathe.
i jus feel so ashamed of myself.
i m so heavily in debt
when can i start saving ?when can i marry my gf?
when can i start to buy a hdb ?
etc etc..
can i run away from all this problems?
i chose to face it.i work pt,i give tuition and i manage clear some but when can i clear all?
i dunnnoooo ..jus wish to get away frm everything..
anyway browniebaobao ur article did help me .thks

firediviner SG

yo brp...hangon man...

life is not the end yet....u are stilla good man...

Fight on!!!

browniebaobao SG

Nobody, chi de ku zhong ku, fang wei ren shang ren.

U may be in debts now, but the experiences u gained.. are precious.

I dun think it's a right move to go into business directly without having any experience or preparation..

learn from your mistakes.

I believe ur gf understands the situation u are in right now..

let this be a motivation to u.. work harder, clear all ur debts asap and give her the happiness that she deserves.

Cool-gal SG

dude, u r not alone.
its not the end.
ur gf n family always ter for u. brave on.

allentyb SG

post at whinehouse ftw?

N0body SG

thks.
u all wont understand that all this encouraging words mean how much to me.
it means a lot.till i got a urge to cry

i dunno u all at all but i havent hear all this words for a long long time.

thks.

browniebaobao SG

pat pat*

StarPuppy SG

dude...u still got ur family and gf to suport you

i think u should work for them since they are supporting them...dun let them down

Wink Wink Wink

sunny6110 SG

wow~!! u r gd~~... u clear ur debt so fast~~....

keep going... v soon u'll be in the black again...

more experiences, u're less likely to fail le...

gd luck~!

fairlady_xoxo SG

You still have family, friends, gf and people here =) cheer up…life is full of ups and downs…but its how you grow from it that counts =)

kivine SG

he's in agony . not likely to be whining.

LyonK SG

just remember, we are here for you buddy!! Very Happy

UandMe SG

well, most guys come out of university at around 25 with $20k+ study loan debt. U doesn't seem very much worse than most of them.

Father Lim SG

okay... np...
just remember you always have your family and frens....
tok to them if u need to destress... after all, what are frens for....

look on the bright side... many rich businessman did not succeed on their first attempt... they did so only after years of hard work... gambatte...