quinsy side of story
quoted from Devil1976's post, italics are comments from me.
I think I must have been nutz... As in the same case as to jump to
Bee_gal's defence when I was actually the accused... I'm repeating
my same mistake here again...
I've been reluctant to state whatever actually for 2 main
reasons..
1. I know a girl's reputation is especially important to her.
Especially for someone like Quinsy. Age 19. And according to her,
she really mind how people would judge and look at her. I can
understand that.. I truly have no intention to trash your
reputation or whatsoever... Even when mine's down the drain... Like
I've said, such things often don't really bother me... But what
started as a joke for you to just 'humiliate' me is not so 'funny'
anymore if you strike out for it to be a police case... I'm not
stopping you nor intimidating you if you feel 'justified' that such
a call is most adequate from your point of view. I just ask you to
touch your heart and recalled of what happened..
Below would be my account of what happened between me and Quinsy in
the cinema. Yes, I gave her the treat. I told her it's because
she's a student, that's why I treated her.
We had a drink which we shared. I suggested using 2 straws. She
suggested to use 1 straw to share. I insisted on 2. I NEVER
INSISTED ON 1 STRAW. I just said if the straws were to get mixed
up, it's all still saliva and amino acids. I won't die.[/]
In the movie, I was holding the popcorn. [i]Actually, the popcorn
was left on the arm rest cuz I don't like holding popcorns. You
only held it later on.She was to my left. She had her arms rested
on the chair initially as according to her. And yes, I believe her
attire is as what she had described more or less. After a while of
taking popcorns from me (she took it herself using her own hands, I
did not feed her), she actually pulled my arms closed to her
bre*st. I never pulled your arms to my boobs!I did not retaliate.
But I did moved my arm away from her because I had to take popcorn
for myself. The process repeated itself for a while. Repeated
itself... more like when I stopped eating, your hands continued
moving!!!! WTF. Sometimes she would pull my arm close to her to
feed on the popcorn, sometimes I just moved my hand to her.
After the movie we talked and I sent her to the toilet. She took a
long time to come out but I waited anyway. After which she left for
home.
Some time after, I realised that what we did back in the cinema
could have been quite inappropriate and so I smsed her telling her
something like "I'm sorry for being naughty in the cinema just
now." or something like that? Then we continued to exchanged smses
for a while. but your sms-es were very inappropriate leh... all
about 'appetite', you being 'teaser', etc tec...
Some time after, a question which kept popping my mind continued to
disturb me. There was another(?) forumite who PMed me about her
problem (sorry I can't disclose the nick) which involves a sex
buddy. She and Quinsy were PMing me about the same time which was
really in the middle of the night. So I thought they might actually
be the same person, hence I smsed Quinsy the question of "Do you
have a sex buddy?" out of the blues...
Quinsy Has NO clone!OH, AND YOU FORGOT THE QUESTION YOU ASKED ME
AFTER THE MOVIE. YOU ASKED IF I WAS RUSHING HOME OR NOT. AND THAT
IF I COULD STAY OUT LATE. WTF.
That's basically my part of the account. I only discovered about
her thread on me and VK's thread(s) in AA at a much later
stage.
I do not insist that forumites believe in the above I've stated,
but I think it's only fair that I give my part of the account
having heard so much from the involved and 'uninvolved'
people.
I only true regrets now is the disappointment I've given to my gf
and the dirty politics in Sgforums.
2. 2nd reason why I've been reluctant to speak up is because I know
my words would be twisted around somehow... Just look around the
threads and it won't be difficult to understand what I'm trying to
say. Nonetheless, I've decided that it's only fair to everybody to
state my account. For those who is still interested to twist my
words around and put words into my mouth (claiming that I've said
things which I've actually not said), I shall try to ignore for
now.
