aiya you dun get it.
it is his own free will whether he wanna come or not. you make it
sound like he is wrong for not wanting to meet you. it is like he
has committed a great big wrongdoing for not wanting to meet up
with you.
you are forcing him to meet you, if he doesnt meet up with you,
means he gives you the green light to start creating numerous
threads on him, flaming him etc. if he doesn't meet up with you, it
means he is guilty and afraid to face up to the music. what is the
rational behind this?
i am not in love with him or trying to side with him or watever. i
just detest ppl who force ppl to do something,and when they say
they do not want to do it, the person starts to think of all ways
to create trouble for him/her.
you said he is wrong to harass ppl. but in this case it is like you
have been harassing him, and you admit it yourself too.