quality of mods III

last SG · 2007-04-10T13:11:47+00:00

And you are doing.....? Something similar?

ctstalin SG

big cat Laughing

xShevchenkox SG

actually l tink la..in my own humble opinions..moderators shld nt go out with gals alone...cuz of the "position" he is holding..even if he did nothing, ppl will hav this concept that wah...y this moderator like that de? wan tackle gals using the high authority he had, iszit? ppl will oso bu shuang rite and rumours will be spread out?

If die die want to go out with a gal..l tink there shld be another person out tere too...to avoid misunderstanding. Wink

shinta SG

moderators not high authority u noe...

anyone can be a moderator...

see the "forums manager" tab on ur left?

go there n create a forum and tada u're a mod.

Rolling Eyes

Ladi SG

Now we are talking about a moderator touching a girl, which he has already admitted (ie there is no dispute), not just going out with girls alone.

Ladi SG

But as a moderator of AA, one is deemed mature and able to give sound advise, hence a respectable position. If the defendant now is not respectable, would you guys be 'defending' him honestly? Guess you will 'add in another leg'. Aint it?

Devil1976 SG

Up to you... I know what has happened and what has not.. Shall see what 'dirty tricks' you're up to....

798 SG

corrections: AA moderators as they hold a responsible position

i agree wif u if die die want to go out, u should go in a group outing or ask ur gf to accompany u.

shinta SG

if its mc who did this...

i won't have said this much in these threads.... cos... i dunno mc that well.

Laughing

xShevchenkox SG

ya l noe..but a forum like AA..

ppl will juz expect more from the moderator, ppl will want the moderator to be righteous and a responsible person, no funny actions or wad behind the scene.

if is a moderator from bar or whatever..ppl mite not cared much..that is the difference..

Ladi SG

But you dun see MC in any of these scandals? But devil1976 has been involved in one scandals after another. Just a time span of 2 months, there are already 2 huge scandals.

If you are saying others are maligning him, why is everyone maligning him? why arent they maligning MC? Cos MC did not go out with young or troubled girls alone and start touching them during the outings. isnt that clear enough?

Devil1976 SG

I know.. And I feel the same for my gf... That's why I'm not complaining so much about all these legal actions... If 'suay suay' I really kena prosecuted by 'injustice', I'll take it as my 'pay back' to my gf...

Yes, I know also. I was warned by many not to go out with a gal alone. True fact is, she's not the only one... Many times I just go like that.. Nothing like this ever happened before.. To me it's just very casual... Meet ups and movies..

My urge? I have better ways to handle things...

Ladi SG

Yes! Precisely!

xShevchenkox SG

u noe devil very well Shocked

shinta SG

why would u expect a mod to be "righteous and a responsible person"?

one dun need to be that good to give out sound advise u noe?

a mod is there to just make sure everything runs smoothly and no flaming etc mah

798 SG

u should know wat is ur role for dat forum u r modding. but u dun expect pple having dat sort of impression dat anyone can bonk fireice since she is a mod at Bar rite? neither do she nor jason are cheapo too.

AA moderators in my opinion have to be more responsible not only online but offline as well. there will be troubled pple tend to look up at them to talk in real life regarding their problem, but the mods should not take tis as advantage to persuase the troubled pple to break up wif their bfs n becoming their partner.

Ladi SG

You know him well or not, i do not know and that is not important too.

Fact is, he went out with young or troubled girls, and he touched her, groped her br3asts. He has admitted to that.

Ladi SG

Maybe you have misunderstood the responsibility of a moderator of AA. Ask the moderators of any such forum. You really think such moderators need not give sound advise and can give crap advise? They are representatives of the forum, you know?

Ask the moderators here. Maybe since you know devil so well, you can ask him.

xShevchenkox SG

Becos he/she manage AA, l tink a AA forum shld be managed by such ppl, so that the forumer can trust and related their problems. If he is not righteous or wad..u tink ppl will hav the faith to relate their problems mah?

That is y, l tink, Unless u are very sure that u are righteous and a responsible good person, a person with good mindset and thinkings. u are then deem to be the moderator of AA.

Mid9Sun SG

When people go out with one and other...they can have totally different set of objectives to why they are going out in the 1st place.

It can be one person to due with boredom, the other can be predatory. It can also be both wanting to ONS, flings or want to know each other better, etc etc

Since it boils down to the MOTIVES behind each individuals, therefore no reason why mods cant go out with people if his/her motives are correct

shinta SG

my forum is sanctuary suicider..

so i must bring everyone who post there to a sanctuary n commit suicide there?

u're the mod for sgsexforum.
does that mean u have sex every waking minute?

it might be ok for me to use the above line on u.... what about the girls like fifi n quinsy?

and ur first paragraph n 2nd paragraph are contradicting.

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