Originally posted by xShevchenkox:
[If ur frenz really like his gf...he shld respect her mah...he is
now obessed with his own obession and fantazing till he is using
his gf as a sex tool...which l tink is very very bad!!!
A gf is used for care and to be loved..not for regular sex
purposes..beside ur frenz and her oso not married yet...if married
le..l nthing to say..much plz lor..bgr..ur guy frenz want so much
sex from her..
In fact...l tink ur frenz dun even love the gal..juz like her cuz
maybe she is pretty, hav a hot body ur frenz cnt resist
Last time l too hav a gf..my gf and l kissed and touched each
other..but l am always very concerned abt how she feel? Whether is
she worried or scared not..l told her..if she feel
uncomfortable..must tell me...She once asked me..whether l want to
do with her not..l told her that altot my heart yearns for it..but
l dun wan ruin her...l scare that she might hav regrets after
having sex with me and thus rejected her.. A guy that truly likes
his gf wont keep on asking for such requests de...[/b]
Wha so true!! 
Then again, is this really about sex? Or is there an underlying
message his gf is conveying but he is refusing to listen because
he's too focused on being upset that he's not getting sex?
A woman needs to feel loved, appreciated and given attention before
she is respsonsive to her man. Maybe he hasn't been giving her
enough and she is certainly feeling frustrated, which hence leads
her to feel like she's only a sex object?
