It all started roughly 8 months ago when my then friend found
out that her bf had cheated on her by going out with a girl from
Thailand. She initiated the breakup and the bf confessed and thus
their relationship ended.
Before that, me and her rushed down to some ulu place where the
bastard is working, hoping to confront him but he was nowhere to be
found. It was a heartbreaking sight to see her crying in the bus
and my heart aches for her. I have always had special attention
towards her despite knowing she had a BF, I kept the
distance.
Months passed, we got closer together and I tried to spend as much
time as possible with her, even skipping school and giving up my
CCA to be with her. We eventually became very good friend and I am
close to their family as well. Out of the blue, the ex BF came back
and want to have a patch.
Well, she hated him and asked him to FXXX OFF but he is rather
persistent. Leaving food outside her house, smsing her and want to
meet her after her work or at her void deck. I was with her all
along and the only correct thing I knew was for her to ignore him.
He couldnt stop and it breaks my heart to see her crying again
after so many months.
I met with that bastard and told him I would convince her to be
just friend with him but he was still under the impression of him
having a chance with her. At that point of time, the girl already
knew my likings towards her.
Well, the scenario didnt get any better instead the bastard used
what he is best at, emotional blackmail. He threatens to kill
himself, off his phone and got me and her hurrying all over
singapore to find him but at the end he would call her and say he
didnt want to die or else he would not be able to see her
again.
Den came the letters, reminding her of the fun times they spent
together and such. And of cos, I was with her all these while when
he did all these stuff.
The hatred in my friend's heart soon subsides and she begin to be
less cruel towards him. I thought it was best that I no longer care
and just play my part but things went underground pretty soon for
them.
She accepted him as a friend but this bastard tells her he gets
jealous whenever he sees me with her and my friend, not knowing how
to say no would tell him that she is alone when she is with me. I
was terribly upset by her lies. I was just right infront of her
when she said that. I do not know why she would feel that way after
the shit things he did to her. This bastard kept using things like
" You never remember the things we did together.." to bait her
back. Im so distressed that I have lost count of the times I
cried.
Am I right to say that if she doesnt state her stand firm, that
bastard would never move on and me and her would never get a chance
just to even try? Fellow forumes, tell me what should I do? We are
having lots of fun time together and everytime the sms tone came, I
cant help but feel sour because 60% it would be the bastard smsing
her. She is rather timid and we both agreed that she finds it very
hard to be mean.
I asked my close friends for advice, one told me that I have to
prove myself to be the better one for her. I am willing to do that,
I have prepared letters, like what Noah did to Eillie in the film
the notebook. I record down every single day of activities with her
and plan to give it to her but her shadow of the ex mades me feel
helpless.
I was thinking, since she cant say no directly to the bastard, I
would contact him personally but I know I cant say "fxxx off and
die".
I do not think that the bastard character would understand the
meaning of loving her. I tried the approach of " If you love her,
you wan her to be happy" earlier on but he doesnt seem to get it
even to the extent of ME asking her to go back to him if she is
happy but she doesnt want it.
I have given everything just for a hint of spark in this
relationship and I know that we can make it.
