and from your point of view, you think its fair for the gal to
treat TS as a pillar of support, when in actual fact, he wants to
love her?
gals whom treat guys as spare tires are personally unacceptable to
me.
but that said, I hope that you had learnt much through your journey
and experience. I am not going to say negative things like 'I don't
envy you...', or 'I think you are wrong...', 'you take advantage of
her vulnerable situation', coz I am in no position to judge. I just
hope that you understand your own words in your other posting in
another thread, that when someone points their finger at somewhere
else, they should reflect on themselves first.
you have no idea how terrible my wife's ex is, that I believe I did
the right thing, even if you condemn me to hell for that.
Your views and mine are contrasting, and ultimately, its up to the
guy here to decide.
But hey, its his problem, not yours or mine, and I sincerely do
hope that you are living your life happily now. 
