clueless007 SG y my gf nv take initiative and kiss me de.. i dun like to be the pro active one all the time.. being kissed and kissing others is totally different feeling.. sigh... any1 got any suggestions?
darkhour SG well if she kisses u back its the same feeling le loh…dun tell me u kiss her she dun kiss u back one sia…i dun mean peck on cheeks hor btw…but anyways girls shy what…we guys oso shy la but girls sometimes dun dare to b so ‘proactive’
clueless007 SG ya lor, but she juz doesnt take initiative.. i asked her abt it and she say depends on her mood lor.. i’m kind of disheartened now.. somehow i also lost my mood liao…
clueless007 SG o nv study physics.. so duno.. lol.. please elaborate... and i dun mind kiss me lips lor.. juz a peck on my cheek once in a while out of a sudden rly makes a difference to me lor... sigh.. but she juz dun do it.. i dun wanna keep repeating myself... no point asking cos it's juz not the same...
allentyb SG why do i have to explain in details then you will understand its already norm that a man will take the initiative to kiss his girlfriend and for a woman to take the initiative to kiss you, either she is drunk or you are handsome enough
Eternal-fire SG It's not what they are trying to say is that guys are supposed to intiate kisses as that is what seems to be happening majority of the time. So as a guy you should intiate first.
ladykirvin SG Different pple express their affections differently. If you do find it a bother, then try to let her know whats going on ur mind. Otherwise, do be prepared that its going to be like this months/years down the road.
Sakuraflower SG u r a guy la... take initiative.... then u make her happy, one day she gives u a big kiss and a hug.... jia you!