Relationship problems.. What should i do???

jojobeach SG

Those people who encourage to breakup, obviously have not been through a serious relationship before.

You think say break up , immediately can break up ah ??
bf/gf not puppy dogs ok ?
After investing 1 year of time, effort and money, heart will be very pain pain to let go ok !!

I can understand your feeling TS, been through done that.

Ask yourself if he is really worth it or not ?
Or would it be better to cut your loss and seek greener pastures ??

Do you think you will be able to find a better guy than this cheater ??

If you don't think you deserve a better guy, then go ahead and hold on.

If you do think you deserve better one.. start looking.

Kenashi SG

Shocked
who don't deserve better??
who in the first place deserve to be treated like that???
if a guy can cheat on u once, he can try again, he just need to think of another way to ask for forgiveness either by buying presents or promising the moon or stars in the sky
we only give our opinions, it is up to her to decide

endlessSorrow~~ SG

I thought that da forest already botak liao?! Nice guys had extinct already..

I used to see my bf as a man of integrity but now i really doubt my judgement.. Even tho he treats me better now, it still hurts to be betrayed by the man whom i had once placed all my trust on Crying or Very sad

T.Ryousuke SG

If u know there is a problem and u wanna drag on, it also doesn't means a good ending. In r/s both must put in effort. Yes is not good to advise for a break out, end of the day anybody have r/s can only decide themself whether to continue or not. But doesn't mean those who suggest break off never gone through all this. In the end wasting their youth in the jerk is what u wanna to see on TS or whoever in this situation? Base on case to case, IQ and EQ do play apart in r/s, but if TS is smart enough she should know what to do. Then she no need yr help liao.

soulwinner SG

just let it go before it is too late... Very Happy

mystee SG

i have a 5 years r/s.. not sure if u think is long enough or if is serious or not..

who duno that break up need courage & heart will be very pain pain?
& did we ever say break up.. can immediately break ah? of cos it takes time & consideration... & many other factors....

but now.. obviously TS's bf is someone who is not advisable to stay with for long.. and so we are giving her advise on what we think will be the best route for her.. but of cos, in the end, she will still have to decide for herself..

Quiet Guy SG

hello there, your bf is only the fern that grown on the side of the tree le.
sad to say, you have chossen a fern, not a tree Shocked Shocked

forest botak, still got jungle out there Mr. Green

take a break TS. learn some gardening skills and choose a good tree next time.

TC.

CHeers..

RedHairband SG

Do you think you will ever feel happy with him again?

jacqn SG

you want TS to be dumped by her bf then its too late!
to TS: seriously you should dump him. he is not worth you waiting him to change. he will not change! he will only change for the worse, cos he knows you be around no matter how he treats you. what can be worse than him cheating behind your back? what if he contract disease? still not too late to turn back.

i know 1 year relationship is not easy too. i had held on a previous relationship cos i was used to him and not bear to let go. i was afraid that i will never to able to find a good guy again. initially you will find it hard without him. but you will get used to it. why must you bear all these yourself? just treat that you owed him and had paid back.

gigabyte14 SG

ok, then try this.

you're TS. and you're married with that jerk. and he's seeing another woman.

then think about it.

shut up if you're not a professional.

AndrewPKYap SG

u started the relationship with him because??? Why did you fall for him? What was his attraction?

Kenashi SG

hallo, nobody here is a pro!!
we r just here to give advices
keep cool dude

gigabyte14 SG

well, try putting yourself in TS's shoes.

confirm must break 1 rite?

what's the use with feelings with him while he harbors feelings with another woman?

blahshit SG

ts, i think u too stupid.. pay that girl $$ for wad? do u know this will make her come for more? jus dump that dumb guy who dun know how to cherish u..

fudgester SG

I believe that the TS has gone through enough without having you insulting her.

blahshit SG

thanks for the comment on me.. but i really think ts shouldn't have gave that slut the $$.. and she really really deserve a better guy..

Kenashi SG

this is her choice in life!!
there is no such thing as a "must", as long as she don't ever regret her choice she make in life, that's what matter Cool

got a chinese saying that guys r full of feelings hence they tend to have flings all over the places n keep saying he love everyone Laughing

fudgester SG

I don't deserve thanks.

But she deserves an apology from you.

gigabyte14 SG

welllll so that's all up to her Laughing

tek_koh SG

Ts.. wad u mean by fling and pay her money?
as good as prositute wad..

not sure if u guys watch wo cai x3 recently..talking about silly girls whom have lousy flirty bf who cheats

tS..dun b like them

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