I agree with DailyFreeGames and Sakuraflower.
Apart from that, how long have you known this chinese lady for?
Many relationships are a trade off. An exchange of what each has to
offer. In her case, she could've had love and comfort from you, but
have chosen security and comfort provided by her current man.
Build your own life and they were right, with confidence and cash,
plenty of women will kiss at your feet. Someone else will come
along for you. Occupy yourself with sports, stay fit because it
sharpens your mind and builds your level of confidence. Make new
friends and move on because not even the greatest romantic affairs
end in marriage and it isn't necessary for this to conclude in
marriage. Even if you did end up with her, along with it comes a
new set of troubles. How would you afford 2 extra mouths?
You may not like the idea of how sketchy standards such as wealth
play a part when selecting life partners but prime examples are out
there everyday. It's just the practical side of living.
Take this as a fleeting experience, people come and go in our
lives, it's no big deal. Life is short, just enjoy yourself and
date more of others.