i agree with you, but you're still assuming that there's any
lesson to be learned at all? how do we decide if something is good
or bad for someone else?
"that its ok to have flings, its ok to have sex with your
gardener even if you are married, and that liking two persons at a
time is ok, as long as you choose one in the end, and just say
"Sorry" to the other person who wouldn't end up with you...people
think its ok to do all these" etc. not = more open?