browniebaobao SG i think if a guy cries, he muz be feeling very sad... and i might be affected too.. I'll give him tissue, or even lend him my shoulder, my ears..
sillyme SG Mookz, as you said, it depends on the situation. And it depends on the nature of relationship you have with him. If you don't know what to do, then it's best just to be still and stand by his side.
tek_koh SG ya...guys dun cry unless there something really serious or something really upset him give him yr ear
Bontakun SG Normally when a guy chose to cry infront of you, it more or less showed he really trust you alot and confide in you too like how true friends does. So if he cries infront of you, (from my own opinion) you can either pass him tissue or wait for him to cry finish or cry with him. No guy will simply cry infront of you unless its really a serious matter. Even so, he can choose to cry alone, but crying in front of you is something he showed to you, a form of respect. So you can respect him back by not ridicule him or laugh at him. That is the last thing he wanted as a response from you. To further understand more on crying, may I advertise this link? http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=246442 I know I buay hiao bai, but... but but...
sonic_16 SG maybe right. But i'll rather have a bf who has mood swings (say smash bottle, overturn table, kick the pavement, punch the van) then cry.
BadzMaro SG are u guys for real ? real men dont cry. only little boys who want to win back the girl they cheated or just about to get @ss dumped cries like a baby n gets taken back. yup.. you al know what i say is true. While real men cry when thier momma or best friend croaks it.. or thier brother in arms gets his brains exploded right beside u in the battlefield . Or a pike sticking out from ur chest , n the excrutiating pain is just too much to even hold it in .. while ur drenched in hot oil and ur arms squashed under a 10 ton rock.. it hurts till tears start rolling out of your eyes.. its o.k.. to cry.. in pain>~
BadzMaro SG hehe... a guy that will ' Wei Ni Er Fung Kuang' yes ? he he.. i know.. girls love it when a guy does it.. he he.. oh yeah~ it works i know.
jondizzle foshizzle SG Real men don't cry? I think you mean emotionally insecure and mentally unstable men don't cry.
nyox SG the last time i cried was about 1 year ++ ago. when my father tio stroke and i couldn't bear to see him such a pitiful state. thankfully he's back to normal now.
