Your best chance would be now man. When everything just started,
no one really know each other so it would be your best time to be
friends with her currently. Everyone needs a buddy in poly. Most
likely u will talk more often than others, hence knowing her better
than others. Time to act man or lose it.
Just add her on msn and msg her, chat with her 24/7. Got bf got 3
yrs to wait for opening right? lol if no then hit jackpot lo. No
harm being friends while scouting for chances. Msn cant be that
difficult right? then slowly hp then slowly go out etc etc.
If you dont act now, and so happen she did not have a bf, then if
later u come to know of that a poly fellow mate manage to woo her
in such time. You sure to regret your behaviour now.
Exta note: If you cant do it, PSYCHO YOURSELF TO DO IT
Advice based on poly experience