Yunhaier SG It's so common for human to congregate all their perceived 'misfortune' and attribute that to 'curse'. It's only right that if you want to name every negative incidents that took place in your life, you should also take down all the good things that did happened. You bought a sunscreen? Be thankful that you have money to spent. You have problem finding Credit Card receipt? Be thankful that you have a credit card to spent. Interested in girls but they are not interested in you? Be thankful that you are not in a one sided relationship. Not interested in girls but they are interested in you? Be thankful to be loved by another. Do not wish to work in certain work environment and the early waking hours? Be thankful that you have a job. The irony in your age? Be thankful that you are still alive, well, healthy and mobile. When calls come least expected? Be thankful that at least you get calls. P.S: There are some people who doesn't even have what you have. Be thankful. Cheers
winning 11 SG yea that's life.. Discuss with ur family when u got some probs with ur life..last time i dun really do that, keep it to myself..now gradually..feeling better now
sonic_16 SG same as most people. I sent out resumes to what i'm interested in, no replies after a few months, hence sent out to anything I can qualify for, hence end up in job agency. How do I know what I want in the first place?
R3SsH|n SG take things slow. the slower u take it, the more easily u can anticipate what is gonna happen.
sonic_16 SG Another vague answer... Everywhere is the same, countless motivational books, seminars all gave vague answers... In the end, people are just lucky that's why they are successful. That's why they dunno how to teach another person.
cockaholic SG i’ll keep it short and simple. think both positive and negative side of the situation. think inside and outside of the box.
CarDreamer SG Yoyoyo, you are not alone. I also having the same experiences as you. I want to kena toto but nv kena. I dun want to be a monitor but kena during secondary shool I dun want to be a class rep but kena duing poly day I dun want to manage people but duno why boss see me so up, want me to manage ppl but i bei tahan resign. I want to go early to work but late. I purposely want to late but end up early. So now, i think positive liao.... just let it be... dun take it too hard. Come to think about it, it is ok to be a loser, to be lonely, to be sux, to be suay..... but then who cares...... we all going to die one day... do what you want and don't let this little thing irritate or affect you. No one is perfect.. If people said you are a pig, do your really turn into pig
airgrinder SG The bread would not fall but on it's buttered-side; anything that can go wrong will go wrong.