^mR.yellow^86 SG There is this girl i like. She's quite pretty and cute. She's also a "hot topic" for everyone. and she has a lot of guys approaching her. But despite of that, a lot of guys say they wont go after her also because she looks childish and playful. The thing is whenever a friend of about her and ask my opinion about her, I will go saying that she's not my type because she's childish. The fact is I have strong infuatation for her. Sometimes I do help her from behind whenever I can but acting a bit cold in front of her. Why am I contradicting myself? I myself don't understand. Is it to avoid my friends from finding out that I like her?
Slipshade SG It appears that when so many other guys says the same thing, you feel that it's only appropriate to say the same because you don't want to be the oddball out, to be looked at weirdly or be laughed at. You are attracted to her, but you are obviously acting the way you are due to peer pressure. So what happened is that you are simply conforming to peer pressure. You act the same way as they do so as to remain in the circle. And the fact is, some of those guys are most probably in the same position as you are in right now. Cheers.
Kouyou SG if u like somebody jus go ahead lah. think so much for wat? or u wan to wait until u lose her to someone else then regret ah? jus do it lah
mistyblue SG Bombarding? read the stuff you wrote and the title. Are you wasting time? Its telling you the truth that you do not want to hear. So you are escalating and being childish by responding in other threads in immature ways. Kid, get a life. Spare the girl, you are propably not worth her time.
Ito_^ SG next time dun say dat la. if like, means like. by saying dat, u're oso acting childish right? tian sheng yi dui!
^mR.yellow^86 SG lol chill, chill. i never get angry. don't be angry leh jie jie. getting angry shows your immaturity also...sorry for what I've said earlier in my reply. no harm... u angry with me i will and ....so please dont get angry lor... hmm i din disturb the girl also leh. din purposely talk to the girl to "approach" also, only talk to her when i really need her help (for some reason, we worked together). and only talk when she needs my help (again, for some reason we are working together) or she came to me. i hardly initiate the talk with her about none related to our work stuff, mostly is she come but that also very rare. I have seen her helping me without my knowlegde also, only 1 week later i found out myself, despite her cold appearance to me sometimes.... Am i not sparing her enough....don't ask me to not talk to her at all leh....we are friends leh.......not acquintance leh....
^mR.yellow^86 SG dont sad sad leh i already sad liao see mistyblue angry u somemore sad again i will more sad leh...be happy la..
curiousOrange SG Inferior complex. That has kept you in the defensive mode all this time. Put it this way, if you have more of everything - looks, charm, money, status - things can convince yourself that you can meet her standards, you will not have reacted the way you did. What you need is a detached, don't give a crap attitude. It is quite alright to be a clown and make a fool out of yourself sometimes.
Sakuraflower SG i pity the girl.... just because ur friend say that she is not suitable then u agree... ur friend know her... gf issue is about her and u ... not about ur friend.... childish????? in what way the girl is childish? the ways she talk or her action... or is it her thinking??? pls define... If u like the girl , then go after her..... then show ur friend whether she is worth ur effort or not..... from what u describe, I think she is a pretty good girl.... the decision is up to u to decide...
^mR.yellow^86 SG haha i thought this thread is dead already. eh, i'm a fren of her now. can say close but dunno how to go closer. cuz can say not close also....it's somewhere in between, if u get what i mean.
