Hello, im littlefishtan! (earlier account). I got dumped
because....
My bf thinks we are incompatible because im like more academically
inclined, physically inclined, musically inclined and artistically
inclined than he is.... i feels im trying to outshine him by
gaining more knowledge and learning more things.... =(
And also,
Because this was a new year at school, he graduated and hence he
wanted me to report mydaily interaction with male friends. So thats
what i did, like i told him in detail everyday what i did. Even
though i talked about only neutral conversations which classmates
would have, he got extremely suspicious abt ppl around me and kept
accusing things like
"You like this person right? that person like you right?"
His control tightened. He began to start controlling the way i
dressed... like he wanted me to dress horribily when we go out..so
no one will look in my direction....
He said he got tired from all 'the problems' (even though they were
not really existent as i didnt like anyone else and no one else was
interested in me) and hence got tired from facing and fighting all
the external threats.
Now just after two weeks of break up, hes dating someone who is in
the normal acad stream. =( How? Do you think i still have hope.....
I tried to explain all the misudnerstandings but he wont
listen....
I dont want to lose him. Hes the very rare type of guy... extremely
loyal, decent, helpful, gentlemanly, caring and very filial to his
parents......
I need advice badly... should i...
1. Move on
2. Wait for a while, den try again
3. Continue to persuade him to stay
Pls.... advice me on this issue.. Thank you... ='(
