Oh yah...this kinda drama controlling mother.
i have one. Just kicked her out of my flat and life last
year.
Still battling with the guilt about it, and dont think she is
spiritually going away anywhere soon. The sufferings....yep.
TS, you can leave her alone, this is what she wanted.
She wont feel any love now, because all she has is detesting you.
And making herself feels justified that she is treating you right,
because she 'cares' for you.
Is it possible to plan your escape route elsewhere?
Maybe a 2 year oversea degree in Australia? And you can do your
nose/lipo/whatever glam surgeries she wants you to do there? (You
dont have to do it...but it might help if you offer to work for
your own money to do your own surgeries?)