i really start to wonder to myself, is there anything else in
this place, country, human are getting realistic, are we a slave to
the money, hell yeah! how about love, are we as man been judge by
the amount of money in our bank account, do we have a car?
Nowadays, if you have a car, and you probably is financial stable,
you have a career, so does looks really matters when it comes to
wooing a woman?
Gone, are the days, where you can really express yourself freely,
now BE a yes man, do the right time at the right time, take her to
fancy dinner, like
garibaldi
, and compliment on 'how she looks so different(pretty) from other
days, do the all those god damn right things, and perhaps, you get
to shag in the night
Goodness, is woman, that worth the time and energy, not to forget
the whining, and nagging, example, dear, why you want to go this
place, me thinking in my mind, (why can't i go to this place) then
i answer, because i want to go to this place, then she reply, is
there anything at that place, me thinking, wtf, do i have to give a
good reason to go that place, then me reply, ya true hor, then how
you recommend me a place, then she reply, hmmm, you decide lah, i
don't want to decide on everything, you are a guy, you know,
me thinking, CB
To have a happier relationship, try to avoid these behaviors as
much as possible.
1. Telling him what to do
Are you constantly telling your man how to drive, how to dress, how
to behave? Women are good at making improvements, but this highly
sensitive area is off-limits. The most important thing to a Martian
is doing a good job. Question his competence and you'll not only
hurt him, but you'll meet a wall of resistance. Instead of telling
him what to do, try to ask for his opinion. Martians thrive in an
environment where they are the experts, so help him be the expert.
Instead of saying, "Honey, you should do this." Ask his opinion,
"Honey what do you think of this?" This allows him to share his
thoughts and you get him involved in a conversation about whatever
issue is on your mind. This simple trick is how you can help bring
about improvements in your man without telling him what to
do!
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