forget about this guy.
he will look for you when he needs companionship, and when he
doesn't you wun even hear from him. and when you want commitment,
he refuses to agree to it.
classic case. i have had an ex like this before as well and i
dumped him as soon as he tells me that he wants companionship only,
and not commitment. and i have not regretted my decision ever since

you will meet a better guy in the future, just like me 