I'm in love with one of my best friends

last SG · 2007-03-20T11:01:33+00:00

Is your decision and need for advice to forget and get over with that guy you're interested in...? Why did he let things slip passed before....? Was your cu...

red|pixie SG

He knows, he found out about a week ago. I wish we could be more than friends but the thing is…I have a boyfriend who loves me very much and he’s in love with another girl who doesn’t love him. I know i have to faithful to my boyfriend which is not hard at the moment since the guy i’m in love with doesn’t love me, but i’m afraid that in the future when he gets over his current love things will be more complicated. We had a chance to become a couple long time ago but he let it slip away. Now i keep thinking what could have been. I try to support my boyfriend and give him as much love as he’s given me over the past couple of years but my heart’s not 100% in it. Every now and then i start thinking about my friend…How can i get over him?

rane SG

Wa, what a mess!!! Rolling Eyes Question Confused

ndmmxiaomayi SG

Spend more time with your bf…

soulwinner SG

Make firm decision... Very Happy

Gackt247 SG

Take some time to know wat u want n wat u can have n how to minimise casualties.

Pitot SG

wtf? very messy.. Rolling Eyes

BrUtUs SG

so u saying ur bf likes another gal? Wink or u mean the guy u like?

jianfish9 SG

I think its goes like this. TS currently has a BF that loves her very much but TS is in love with another guy. This guy that TS like is in love with another girl who doesn't reciprocate.
BF --Love--> TS --Love--> Another Guy --Love--> Another Girl. All in a One-Way Traffic.

Sometimes, things don't turn out to be what you want. Learn to treasure what you have. But then only you know what you want.

hobochua SG

Totally agreed with you man ..:Treasure something you have now cos you never know what will happen in the next second life is like a drama over in an instant..

where got 100% in love :Just ask yourself how much you love the other guy if not much then just stay by your bf side if not next time you sing this song 'Show me the meaning of being lonely...'Tell me why.... Very Happy

angrynor SG

and you and your bf has been together for years?

treasure it. =)

allentyb SG

Rolling Eyes

Do what you heart tells you

simple as that

live life to the fullest

^tamago^ SG

red|pixie SG

To you who said follow your heart:

That's the problem...my heart is torn. I want to be loyal to my boyfriend but at the same time i'm thinking about my friend.

Herroin SG

Give yourself some time to think about it, maybe away from both your best friend and your bf for a couple of days. It might help for you to think clearly on what you want. I would advise you not to rush any decisions. As for your best friend would not be able to love u 100% even if both of you are together. Hope you will not regret on your decisions

walesa SG

Laughing

So the girl at the end of the chain is the biggest winner?

red|pixie SG

She's always the winner. I've been listening to him go on and on about her for over a year now

stellazio SG

break with ur bf, and let the guy u love know.

AndrewPKYap SG

Thinking about your friend is not sleeping with him... so think all you want if it makes you happy...

BrUtUs SG

tink u need to sort ur feelings... wats so gd abt tat guy? better looking? and wats so bad abt ur bf?

red|pixie SG

it's not about looks or money or anything like that. my friend and i have more in common..we like the same music, same shows, we have stuff to talk about, i just feel emotional connection. and there's nothing bad about my boyfriend, but we're completely different.