I'm in love with one of my best friends

Urroh SG

sort out your feelings, no point prolonging the agony.. Very Happy

Saltiga SG

i’ll try to be the bad guy this time round, You’re such a b!tch lor, having a bf but yet still likes another? shame on you, if you really think that the other guy is the one for you then break off with your current bf and go for the “due love you but love other gal” guy.

icyboiz SG

break. since heart not in it already

LifeIsWonderful SG

go steady with your friend lah. kick your bf away lah.

Kouyou SG

follow your heart… logic will distort the truth but the heart is always true… jia you jia you

MrAlson SG

Go for the one u really like. U all are not married yet and u still have the right to make ur own choice. but jux dont regret after making that decision Exclamation

zeny SG

Totally agree

Since she is already thinking of leaving him then better go.

The Bf must really thank her for that....

dorwin SG

actually you will have that kind of feeling is purely because of many factors .

you find ur boyfriend not as good looking as that guy
your boyfriend charisma and character lose out to that guy
you find ur relationship not very steady in terms of what the guy can give u
you simply just feel physically attracted because hes HANDSOME.

i once asked my female friend . would you have sex with a guy if hes handsome like louis koo and interested in you and he wants to do it with you ,.. even though she have a boyfriend. she replied "YES"

this goes to show human always ask for the best.

Yunhaier SG

I ask someone the same question and she says 'No'.

P.S: I have no quibble with your post, just that I hope you do understand that the part in red is grossly misrepresented and cannot be used in any form of conclusion or judgement, other than being individual opinion or percept in that particular question. Idea

Cheers

red|pixie SG

I dont know but i get the feeling you didnt read it properly..either that or you have a very short memory. no offence attended.

I asked how to get over him and said i intended to stay with my bf cos i dont want to hurt him.

And no..i was never using my boyfriend. It was over between me and my friend when i met my boyfriend. We both moved on and i fell in love with my current boyfriend. But now the old feelings are starting to come back. And i'm not going to dump my bf even if my friend says he loves me. I just cant. I need something to help me get over him

red|pixie SG

how does that relate to me? nobody was even trying to pull me. he's my friend..that's all, from his point of view anyway.

red|pixie SG

yes everything's correct. we're all in our twenties. and nothing really happened. i guess i had some feeling for him even bfor but i realised it only a while ago. I got jealous when he told me about this other girl. And it still stings every time he mentions her.

red|pixie SG

i’m sorry i dont have time to reply to all the posts, i’ll try to get back later. thanks everybody for trying to help.

crofty SG

what a mess...Follow your heart Wink

thongs SG

make a really firm decision. dont hurt both parties in the end =)

Kenashi SG

???
did u type correctly or not!!
seem to me that everyone inside a r/s above doesn't love one another Laughing

Devil1976 SG

So... How is that guy reacting now that he found out you're interested in him...? Still talk to you about that girl she's interested in....?

Devil1976 SG

Is your decision and need for advice to forget and get over with that guy you're interested in...?

Why did he let things slip passed before....? Was your current bf there for you when that thing happened...? How long have you been interested in him and he not interested in you...? What makes you actually think that he would just suddenly and be genuinely interested in you out of the blues when both of you hardly even get that close together (I'm presuming on this one)? Do you think this would in fact make a fruitful relationship in turn...?

Who is your bf to you now...? Why did you chose to be with him...? Do you love him.... Question

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