Hello...i've been having this feeling... i feel like a useless
guy...heres how it goes.
Everytime i see guys playing basketball and im not playing it, i
feel kinda useless...cause to tell you the truth...i suck at most
sport except cycling...i always fail my 2.4km...in my opinion a guy
should be good in sports....and girls likes mostly guys who plays
basketball....but i just dont like basketball.
I like to do things like model collecting and other hobbies, most
of which girls finds boring. My sis ever told me this , "Wah, model
collecting very fun meh? I think its just a waste of mum and dad
money and i tell you, play basketball lah. Then got girls like you
one. Otherwise you chances of having a girl liking you is very low"
I feel like a geek and most girls dont like geeks and nerds..
Now my cousin... He is shuai (handsome) IMO... he does plays
basketball . He knows how to sweet talk girls. When i ask him what
he does during weekends, he answered me that he went to KBox or
watch movie with girls. Actually he goes out with girls alot and he
complains that its quite boring actually but he no choice, because
the girls keep asking him go out. I feel that his quite cool and
has the charming sense. I feel that if i compare myself with him,
hes so cool and charming but im so useless and nerdy and like
mummy's boy ( i always go out with my parents).
Whenever i jio a girl out, they always say No time, not free...But
when my cousin ask the girls, the girls answered yes/ok ok without
hesitating. I feel kinda useless really for this...
Also, most of my friends who are shuai and cool works part time and
have the money to buy things to pamper the girls they like. My
parents dont even allow me to work due to my O levels...so ofcuz i
dont have the money to pamper girls...
Hmm hope you guys dont say that i shouldnt date at my young age of
17...i really prefer teen, youth dating, cause its a kinda
active...dating at work are usually less active, due to the long
working hours and that we usually work into the weekends...the only
good thing is that we will be more financially stable...im not
looking for that ... what im looking for is a very active
relationship, a r/s where we play hard together like go gai
gai...study abit together... and kinda playful relationship.
Actually, wat i want is, what can i do so that i will be more
famous with the girls, so that my chances of getting a girlfriend
is higher?
fren...i am sure you have heard of
pple signing on for $$$....it's the same thing as take up
basketball to sian zhar bor u can only go this far and beyond can
be a torture....just be yourself,switch yourself off,there's
nothing wrong being single what,freedom leh....somemore what is
yours then is yours what is not yours even u exhaust all your
energy to get it ,still wun be yours....what to do rape them
right?...no point man....just be cool(aka bo chup) live your days
as u comfortable with... 
