How to be a good friend?

Zhane SG

How do you know how people feel about you? How to react appropriately so as not to disrupt the frenship?

Seth35 SG

If you are Jealous….Keep it to yourself…

Patrik SG

The main hang up in today's world is hyprocisy and insecurity.

mpgtdr SG

there’s no exactly a way to see how a person feel about u. see how u feel about each relationship and act accordingly. seriously nowadays, even if they doesn’t really like u but they act really nice to u for their benefits and blah blah blah behind ur back etc.

Zhane SG

yep
that's why it's hard to tell bah.
I feel that we can become close friends, but dont know how the other party feel mah. If is not mutual, no point hanging around him, wait im seen as bugger ~_~

blahshit SG

be urself..

soulwinner SG

Hmm depend... Very Happy

Ito_^ SG

trust the person.

have faith.

be nice.

but not many ppl can do it.

felirox SG

I always hear advises saying friends will not really help you when u are in deep deep trouble,but a family does.

so to sum it all i shall say,friends are temporary whereas family is forever.

zeny SG

humm err..
would like to add...

only if you come from a good family who cares about you.

felirox SG

but some unstable family still love you or try to extricate u frm some trouble wad. Family's love is forever ya. They still care for u no matter wad.

nanren4ever SG

Treat people sincerely. Do not take sides between two good friends who U are friends with too. Listen to them, and give advice, but always tell them its ur own personal opinion and just use it as reference rather than insisting that they follow ur advice.

There's no sure way to know how people view or look or u. All u can do is to be the one that's not fake.

<Precious> SG

Do unto him as you would him unto you + Do not do unto him what you would not him unto you! Wink

kristovorus SG

i agree.. haha.. don't expect him to do anything more than what you you would do for him. Most importantly, be there for him when he needs u Smile i hate people who disappear the moment they get a whiff of trouble

Zhane SG

hmmmm... agree bah
but life this kind of thing is very confusing

sometimes i wonder if e person is good to me because she/he really treat me as fren, or just trying to repay the 'debts'..those dat accumulated when i helped.