NEED HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111

devang_goenka SG

Hi,

I need help cause i really like this girl in school, we have been friends for a year but now i don't know what i did wrong and she isn't talking to me anymore....i have been trying to call her but she isn't picking up her phone..i have no idea what went wrong.... Sad i am really confused so PLEASEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP ME i want this friendship back and i want her to be my love.

xShevchenkox SG

why u want call her up? Maybe u have been calling and calling until ppl find u a nuisance

Frankly speaking..l tink guys shld nt juz anyhow phone up gals for chit chat or toking nonsenses...if u two arent very close...

1st
u dun noe the gal like it or not

2nd
u are bothering the gal...the gal may get irriated with ur calls..

Unless u are toking abt serious stuffs such as asking work stuffs and etc...that nid the gal help and etc..

Other than that..u shldnt be calling her -_-

Can sms ppl de mah...den if really wan tok with gal on fone..at least msg ppl 1st la...asked her whether she free anot mah

Ito_^ SG

dun spam her, dun whine to her, dun force her, dun pressurise her.

Simple_Bear SG

I encounter similar situation when I was young.

Just dun bother her for the time being...

Mr. Green

xShevchenkox SG

Dun keep bothering ppl lo...l tink she probably frightened by ur actions le.

sum ppl juz dun like persistent ppl

mystee SG

maybe someone or she realise that u hold a likin for her.. that y she is avoiding u..

try and give her more space instead of calling her.. it will make things worse.

zeny SG

1) "I want her to be my love?"

Humm sounds very forcefull?

Maybe you got to learn that in life you will not always get what you want.

2) Before we help you please tell us why?

3) During this 1 year did the girl say or show that she like you in any way?

4) Lets be fair if you say you want her to be your love. ok I am fine with that.
Can you list down the things that you did for her and what can you do for her?

5) Last question if she says or shows that she does not love you. What will you do?

allentyb SG

what have you said to her, or done to her

maybe she is busying with her own things

or just maybe she has a boyfriend already

i don't know

just a wild guess