Respond to SMS or call

Quinsy SG

Time to find a new hobby then

binarynwitz SG

Okay.

Do you feel anything weird with her actions?

Sometimes, females just like to go about doing their stuff with friends, and leave everything behind.

Of course, the "friends" might include guys.

Still... She's innocent until proven guilty. Trust her!

Quinsy SG

Then i suppose you should have the maturity to deal with such problems.

T.Ryousuke SG

Yah, but still wanna find out how other feel, maybe I'm too sensitive. But sometime gal r difficult to understand.

binarynwitz SG

Actually sometimes I feel this way too.

But still, the best way is to talk to her about this. Good luck. Smile

Quinsy SG

Oh well, which is why good guys turn gay. Overly abused by women.

T.Ryousuke SG

So you mean I also 1 of them soon!

Kenashi SG

u feel so insecure, then stop being in a r/s lah
cannot even trust yr gf Neutral

AndrewPKYap SG

This is a negative thought... Sad

necrolyt3 SG

i've had a similar experience. but the girl is nt my gf, some1 i fancy though. i learned that if a girl starts to transit from replying ur smses promptly, then to the extend of nt replying, u should tk a break. I know it's hard when u go to slp and wake up not seeing her sms. You juz cant slp well. Sometimes i will haven wake up in the middle of the night to check for msgs.

Girls know if they have been neglecting you. you do not have to remind them. When they feel bad they will come back to u. Respect them and like them for who they are. If she didnt reply and u send sms after sms, call after call, u will become an irritating wuss. Then in this case, you're in the wrong. Try to make her feel that you're a different guy than the others, dependable, patient, love her for who she is, and secured. She won't feel secured to be with some1 who wants her so badly every sec. 3rd parties may often see things better. The main character in the story tends to lose their mind and find it hard to control themselves. It's normal. Girls like guys who have patience and great self control. I have failed with the girl i like, so i dun wish history to repeat itself Smile

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T.Ryousuke SG

Thanks for sharing, it's a form of care and attention which sometime gal don't find it neccessary, and maybe she just don't want to trouble me to fetch her after her meeting with friends. Come to a point where sometime ppl say communication problem, so does this consider as 1?

T.Ryousuke SG

Ok then I should be positive cos as wat u said we had settle down liao. No need to worry her so much, right?

T.Ryousuke SG

I need to think deeper inorder to understand why, cannot just giveup easily.
At times I need to show that I care about her, if she don't respond I will though something happen to her or wat?

necrolyt3 SG

If u want to think all the possible reasons, you won't ever be able to finish. In the jap drama 'long vacation', Takuya said this "Sometimes problems will become better if u don't do anything to it".

Hai.. girls are problems la... They are very self centred. It is always the case. When girls have gd guys around them, they don't treasure them. When they have bfs who play around and flirt, they will cry, weep and even commit suicide. A sick world....

T.Ryousuke SG

She said I very naggy, then I will just let her be the way she like .And I no need to worry about her until she call, but she will also be worry how come I din call her at times. Confused Wah difficult mind game leh!

Yunhaier SG

If one has the intention to cheat, he/she will cheat, insofar as to do whatsoever possible to keep it hidden (although with time, everything will be known eventually).

It's not about girls; in fact, it's about the personality of the person. Some people do not feel the need to report their SMS/calls when they out with a group of friends - I used to be like that. Of course if you are not pleased with such behaviour, you have to talk to her about your insecurities.

It's always possible to manage personal space and 'couple's regulation' harmoniously. But if her previous relationship was like that, it would probably take a couple of years worth of communication, understanding and compromising before a lasting, viable solution will be in place.

The key is to keep communicating. Idea

Cheers

T.Ryousuke SG

thank for the advise, so she cannot complain if i din pick up the pone or reply sms.

Yunhaier SG

Before you consider playing a tit for a tat game - think about whether this action will build or mess up your relationship further.

Don't do something like these just because ego and temper are itching to find fault. You might just regret your action in time to come. Idea

Cheers

T.Ryousuke SG

Ofcourse din do it in purpose but u know gal like to complain about all this. 1 thing for sure that in future I won't sms or call her when she is out with her friends even I am some where nearby, cos I find that there is no need for me to care for her to this extend since she don't need my help. Why ego is involve? or maybe I should take it easy.

lonestar86 SG

dun u guys think that there must be trust between u and her??

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