my sister loves a married guy

Haven SG

Have you ever been in love before?

hiphop2009 SG

yes of course i understand and i have a gf myself too.

i understand dat love is blind yeah? emotion is hard to control, BUT the reality is often cruel! dat is why the previous post emphasized a lot on how we should help her.

maybe i also forgot abt how we can use soft method to help her too. one thing is for sure, we cannot advocate and ask her sister to just chase her dreamz. we are going to get her in trouble if we do so.

now my turn to ask u, have u been in love before???

hiphop2009 SG

n as someone here said, if nth else can be done, let her do it her way and taste her own fruits. of course, IF (unlikely) things turns out well, den we muz and will wish her, but if she falls badly, we can only help her by comforting her and giving her emotion "medicine". from den she will only learn her lessons =)

Haven SG

My question wasn't meant to offend. It is just to see whether are we looking at things on the same platform.

Then you should know she have a decision to make and if she's still young. She'll need to learn from her own personal experience.

What keropoking can do, he have done.
What he should do next is, wait...for his sister to seek help.

Now his sister doesn't need anyone because 'she's in love'
So others just have to look closely and help her incase she falls.
Hard or Soft method. It doesn't work if sister doesn't want help.

Yes i've been in love. I speak from the deviant i used to be.

GHoST_18 SG

ur sis is not the 1st girl who does that…

zeny SG

tell the wife lor

btw your sis got say hor why she likes her so much.

<Precious> SG

Your sister chio anot first? Mr. Green

Hamiltonian1125 SG

Though I believe a woman needs to fall in love once or twice wif some bad guys in order to know how to appreciate a good guy, I cant help but to say ur sister is in a grave situation…...pls talk to her nicely for the more harsh ur family are to her..the more she will stick to that guy. Le chatlier principle in work, not in chemistry but in psychology.

cheekycheng SG

i got one fren who is a father at around age 17 or 18... asked the girl of 16 to bear him a son... WTF?! Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked

hmmm i believe in letting ppl play with fire n get burnt... but if u wan, approve of it 1st, like ask her how is she n the guy, how is everything n all... gain her trust... then u understand what she thinking... jumping to conclusions will not help... oh n parents r absolutely be in deaf ears...

gd luck

Ladi SG

Letting people learn from getting burn is fine provided the consequences are not grave. How to learn if the person die from the burn? In this case, TS's sister is pregnant with the guy's kids, if he get her go ahead, she may really bear him a kid, this is affect her life entirely and the kid's too.

Scania N113CRB luver SG

The guy sure is a good fcuker...at 19, he is going to have 2 child ! Shocked Laughing

Its kinda surprising that his wife even allowed him to have a second child. Surprised Confused

mistyblue SG

people in love do not listen to anyone. So you can save it. Or sometimes when it gets ugly, they tell you to shove it.

hiphop2009 SG

haha..

quite true, because for me, i always want to help pple even before dey fall . no doubt many parent's mentality is the same as mine.

To TS: observe her and offer a helping hand if she ever needs the family. gd luck~~

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