how to move on?

last SG · 2007-03-11T10:22:50+00:00

u know what guys i might be childish, but i want to court her back with everything i have got and when she accept i tell her " sorry i dont love you no more"...

gigabyte14 SG

loving someone's never easy...

give yourself more time to think, think of the bad, and the good, and then come up with a conclusion.

gd luck!

fudgester SG

Well, trying to win back someone's love isn't childish. And none of us can stop you from doing so even if we wanted to.

But like I said, I advise against doing so if there's a even a little bit of doubt that the relationship would work again.

cyrusv2 SG

nah i don think i want her back i just want to seek my 'sweet' revenge i can forgive but never forget. Confused

smudgey SG

try to stay away from her for the time being... cut off all contact, tell her you need time to think... clear your head

you said she makes you feel used... do u mean during the relationship?
do you see things changing as in her stop making you feel used if u restart the relationship...

sggirl07 SG

wah! wat did she do? why you want to do that to her?

smudgey SG

I understand how you feel... and at times this is natural....

but remember if you do that you are lowering yourself down to her level or even lower....

and it's nt going to make you feel that much better...

back out gracefully, and live your life happily.... and let her wonder.... this could all be hers.... if she didn't screw things up.... the sweetest revenge ever.

cyrusv2 SG

she just give me the cold shoulder if you know what i mean but sometimes she would give me the normal attention i recieved during our relationship. i know i want her back but i know i dont also. Too much have been left unsolved.....solving them only create more hurt to me damn the world... Crying or Very sad

AndrewPKYap SG

don't do anything and simply feel... feel sad? OK sad but don't do anything about it... feel angry? Ok feel angry but don't do anything about it. Feel lonely, OK feel lonely but don't do anything about it... after a while, everything will be OK...

pipi & poot-poot SG

Its like the heavens decree all 2 suffer from broken hearts

Realisation usually comes too late...u'r jus a step away from escapin it all...yet a heartbeat away from getin stuck back in...

Best of luck

cyrusv2 SG

she stole my heart away and tore it apart. Sad

cyrusv2 SG

anyway for all the heart broken ones out there can anyone give some suggestion of what to do to get over from the sadness of a broken relationship?

e.g

get involve in more work

fudgester SG

Yes. Move on.

Keep yourself busy so that you won't be moping around and getting depressed thinking of her.

Pick up a new hobby or activity that will help take your mind off her.

blahshit SG

yes.. agree.. no use crying over spilled milk..

cheekycheng SG

i called up most of my frenz n hung out with them... i even took up an expensive hobby, Dj-ing, which leads to poverty... but i like...

when u recall those moments just cry... Sad crying do help... i actually had a few girls who slaps me whenever i thought of her... Confused ouch

cyrusv2 SG

slap!??! Laughing

Devil1976 SG

Focus on enjoying your current life if you can...

If you can't...? Make your current life enjoyable..... Cool

Bontakun SG

Your ideal one cannot take it when you are not in the country for a month and she left you for another guy but later broke up with him because he is not her ideal one?

You SURE she is your ideal one? If she is, then how come you still feel hurt and such by her actions? Do NOT be so hasty to jump into conclusions she is your ideal person. EVEN if you lost your chastity to her.

I cannot believe how cheap the value of 'love' is being depicted here. She is really indecisive.

soulwinner SG

Choose the right way... Very Happy

cyrusv2 SG

if only the right way is easily found.

Devil1976 SG

If everything also so easily found then many things would have lost their value liao...

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