friend problems

last SG · 2007-03-14T02:58:53+00:00

Not everyone is like u.. willing to part with money..

pinkish purple papayas SG

i have a theory that sounds kinda... u decide...

if u make friends that make friends, u make more friends

but if u make friends that dun make friends, u kinda give urself a deadend in socializing...

of course, pple would say make so many friends in the end also not all true friends, but in this world, its all about networking...

allentyb SG

find yourself a girlfriend bah, go and venture into ICQ more often bah

there is a saying in chinese - boredom is invincible

pinkish purple papayas SG

u schooling? sec?

if go poly make more friends loh, then take up a CCA...

later in life, during NS, if u platoon is those garang ones, ur NS firnds also very socially garang one..

somemore, ur work friends?

who knows, theres always a chance for a relationship with a special someone too Smile

gigabyte14 SG

i find myself in a deadend already...

but anyway, you don't care much about true frens and such 1?

more the merrier ah?

Ito_^ SG

u tok like those who refuse to follow ur footsteps shld get out of ur face lidat sia.

Ito_^ SG

i think if they prefer hawker center den let em be, join em for hawker center makans.

go to ieat blog oso can find alot of good and cheap food. for example.

if u wan go chiong or wad, u go find some other frens who does dat.

they dun need to follow anyone's footsteps, nor shld u force ppl to follow yrs.

gigabyte14 SG

i poly, year 2 in april...

im like the kind whos no-life myself in the first year, its only recently that i started to u know, hang outside more.

im holidaying now,

so... kinda hard for me to fit in the new school term, like a different personality or something like that.

i like someone oso no use, i too ham ji already la Sad

allentyb SG

MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY

ARGH

-1

since cannot +1 then

simple solution for you, just find new friends to replace those old friends of yours lor,

gigabyte14 SG

oi, +1 for wat la Evil or Very Mad

allentyb SG

now you scold me, i +1 kenna scolded, flame also kenna scolded

Rolling Eyes kenna question

you so bad Crying or Very sad

i also don't know what to do lah

pinkish purple papayas SG

i care a lot. true friends will understand u, and u will understand them too.

i am a talker and initiator.

i even have msn of people i hardly know...

afterall, contacts is very just as impt...at least the link is still there...

brokenluv SG

haha gigabyte.. i can tell u cherish these frens lah..however many ppl define frens differently rite..wad u can do is try to understand and look at things from their point of view...well u can try to make new frens while moving on to another stage of ur life, make frens tt r more outgoing,but at the same time, don 4get these frens cuz they ll b there for u too...tts wad i tink...be grateful tt u ve frens and cherish dem...liddis den call fren...tts wad frens r for..

personally i oso got problem wif frens oso...if u wana chat more den pm mi k...

gigabyte14 SG

my circle of frens oso not alot, i said i oso homey kind b4 ma, now den changed...

changing is hard when none of your friends around you changed.

between my frens and me, im the only one changing...

its like, alone liddat, its a weird feeling, a lonely feeling...

its like im being left out, my living of life becomes left out from them...

know what i mean?

gigabyte14 SG

give advice or smile la...

give me a smile pussycat Razz

pinkish purple papayas SG

i agree man...

we should have a mixture of activities...last month, i went clubbing every weekend...until OMG! i got so sick of it..my back aches with all that hip shaking dances...

then last week, i went out with my "homely" friends, wow, refreshing!

walk walk, eat eat, go home, sleep before 12... nice enjoyable weekend..

but then of course lah, if i every week also do the same "walk-eat-home-sleep" activities i will also become "siao siao" one...

brokenluv SG

haha i ve frens in poly too and they r doing well wif frens oso mahx…not say u muz be stuck but not say u shud let go of these frens…tts makes u no better as a person….

Ito_^ SG

ya, sometimes can get abit frustrating oso.

i want my god damm skewed chicken hearts! Crying or Very sad sigh.

but really, i think can juggle between different kind of ppl as friends one. dun abandon ur old frens juz becuz their habits are different.

good frens are hard to come by.

allentyb SG

Enough of crap

Dude

why not find a hobby to preoccupy your mind, go out on the sgforum outing, find more friends, be more pro active in your social circle, since your friends are homies, what to do, learn to cope with loneliness, either you find more friends to fill up your weekend, or find something to do like downloading anime,

gigabyte14 SG

well now i need to make frens who are the outgoing kind huh?

allentyb SG

yes...........

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