we need more details...how is the guy related to you?
btw, if your bf dont like and you still go out behind his back,
somemore is late at night, what will he think? Try putting yourself
in his shoes and THINK...
i understand the need to go out with friends, have your own freedom
and space, social circles, etc.... but going out often with just a
guy friend is not a good thing u understand? Trust is
needed/essential in a r/s, but there is always a tolerance
level...
i hope you understand from a guy's pt of view..and dont say that we
are MCP. 
