I was rejected

last SG · 2007-03-12T08:59:23+00:00

Dont really think perseverance is a good idea esp if the gurl makes up her mind of spending her time with another guy and not you . This may cause her to dis...

OO_OO_OO SG

So like. I asked this gutl i liked for sometime out alr and she says cannot cos no time cos of job and everything.

Im fcking emo now i swear.

Crying or Very sad

stellazio SG

part and parcel of life. everyone gets rejected including girls.

brokenluv SG

yeah be brave ok? maybe u said sth wrong or wad lors.. i oso kena rejected b4… 1st time date still ok but i was too hasty when i tok bout gettin steady, in the end 2nd date nvr come at all le…

OO_OO_OO SG

she knows i like her.
took damn long to reply my sms abt date.
finally said cant.

Crying or Very sad

2nd time kenna rejected in a row alr.
at least 1st girl nv reject date

brokenluv SG

ohh okayy if u don mind me being direct, she has no extra feelings towards u… who noes. maybe she jus doesnt ve the time..it dpends on her character too… if u reli reli is like her hor, don giv up, but im nt giving u false encouragements/hope la.. cuz (your)feelings ll fade d…. so don tink too much ok, u can pm mi if u wan

AndrewPKYap SG

what to do? whine about it in AA until you feel better... life goes on...

or you can get a life outside of the relationship so you are not so needy and if she is not free, you have things to do.

hahaha this problem is usually the girl's and not the guy's. The gers will complain and the guys will be like, wah lucky she not free.

Pitot SG

suck it up.

Kenashi SG

rejected for a date only lah.
i thought what!!
i ganna rejected after i expressed my feeling to the gals i like loh
which is worst loh.
take it easy lah, maybe she really don't have time loh

pipi & poot-poot SG

Rejection is jus the start~

Persistence pays off...best of luck!

smudgey SG

happens to everyone bro...

I got stood up yesterday without even a call.....

still i wont say i didn't expect it.... hehehe Confused Laughing

<Precious> SG

Rejected for this once doesn't mean you'll get rejected forever.... There may be many reasons for it including testing you.... If you are serious in the girl, you'll persevere and pass her test. If not serious, you'll stop trying to date her and flunk her test! Wink

necrolyt3 SG

is it true that persevere really pays off? From what i heard, chances are slim. If she likes you, there should be no reason to test you, since she will juz accept u readily. If she dun like you, all the more she won't waste time on testing you. I am in a similar situation. hope to see some enlightenment esp from ladies.. Smile

OO_OO_OO SG

thats what i'm thinking too.
if she doesnt like me, she never will.

peseverance is a fairytale thing. Crying or Very sad

smudgey SG

its true perseverence sometimes pays off only when the gal is undecided.. and still have at least slight liking for you..

if she really does not feel that way for you....

perseverance is but futile...

necrolyt3 SG

Sometimes it really depends. I have a fren who was rejected. He stayed with her for 2 mths as frens. He confessed again and was rejected. Again another 2mths. For the 3rd time he was accepted.

I think the greatest strength is not to confess to a girl, but to wait for her and she is not waiting for u. You have to have great self control. You become concern of her activities, who she hangs out with, any guys chasing her etc. But then, we can do NOTHING abt it. We can only wait..........

Agenda SG

Cannot be too rushed, Make her feel you are there for her, Make her feel that you are something special

Not a guy who rushes things, She might think you just wanna feel her tits Wink Wink

allentyb SG

there are plenty of flowers out there for you to pick

Yunhaier SG

/me pat pat.

Cheers

gigabyte14 SG

spend more time wif her 1st, like tok on fone, den fight back full force!

Slipshade SG

Don't worry. You aren't the only emo boy around sgforums. Does that comfort you? Smile