Goosh, i like your post.. it was enlightening to certain
extend.. thank you
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
The ironic things is that the more you try to coerce
yourself to forget, the notion of 'forcing' will inevitable cause
you to remember more intensely.
People are unable to release themselves off their past is because
they largely prefer to dwell what's in the past than to face what's
in the future. It's always a choice for the majority to choose the
familiar than to opt for an uncharted territory. (Esp. Taurus, Leo,
Scorpio and Aquarius)
Rather the evil you know than the evil you don't.
And the root of departure is often not understood spiritually.
[b]Many often view
failure in relationship as reason to degenerate and not reason to
evolve. Some refused their cosmic lesson, while
others reiterate their future relationship around previous flaws,
forming this classic karmic chain that affects relationship after
relationship... over and over again. Only a handful is emotionally
wise enough to evolve positively, regardless of whether the
motivation to evolve is of malign/benign source.
How long does it need for you to understand the theory of moving
on? It depends on how fast you understood the concept of moving on.
Because moving on is not simply just logical words said by somebody
and you are then 'enlightened' to move on.
You must source for the reason within and sell it to yourself. If
you do not believe in why you must move on, you will never move an
inch. 
Cheers [/b]
