than you have to be firm yet take a soft approach.
tell her nice and slowly via different appointements to meet face
to face is better - in case she showing any signs of rejection,
than you can change topic and tell her some other time
it's okay to tell her straight, but if she does something stupid
after him telling her straight in the face than he'll feel guilty -
charged imprisonment, no gf for at least 1-2yrs due to this
horrifying experience if it's handled the wrong way.
i've seen a ex-schoolmate of mine pestering a guy during school
hours when we were all in assembly etc, the story is somehow
similar to what his story as per in this thread, than subsequently,
after the gal got some conselling, than she got better and
recovered.
love problems sometimes cannot have this 'one shot one kill' method
- the same trick does not work on all gals, as each gal in unique
in their experience and reaction.
hmm, this answered my query that i've being keeping inside me
for years..lol..
no wonder gals that i know, tend to have a change of bf(s) fast
after they broke off with their ex-stead.
now i understand why..lol..
Disclaimer : No offence
intended to All Ladies/Gals, this is just based on the observation
on the friends around me - which is subjective