should i own up?

last SG · 2007-02-23T14:56:12+00:00

as the days goes by, i think i really clinging to the small little hope. i dun wan to go up to her and tell her i did so and so for u, it feels like beggi...

fire1980 SG

Sad hi guys/aunts...
quite a silly story, hope u all can forgive forgive.

there is this girl who really dun like me and have rejected me few months ago.
in fact it has got to the stage where she even told me to back off and always ignore me whenever she sees me. primarily my own fault for being too irritating n stuff.

like any 1-sided love i tried to make her feel special on valentines day.. i sold my beloved possession in order to buy her the 99 roses n stuff.

on the day it happened, she even email me asking if they were from me. I felt that I have to lie because 1) i am a coward and is afraid that she will throw everything back at me 2)i dun wan to ruin her happiness that day.

And so I say "No."

I do not know if she is aware (that it was me), but she is still very cold to me, up till this day.

Sometimes I feel like telling her the truth. But why? Perhaps i really want to give up, dun want to keep these little secrets in me any longer. Perhaps I just want things to change.

Of course I hope she will treat me better one day, but that is wishful thinking.

What should I do? Crying or Very sad

alwaysdisturbed SG

you are so silly.

Ray87 SG

give her up, go for other girls. i know its hard, but persisting isnt a solution with your current obsession over her now.

Agenda SG

give up..

there are other nicer girls out there Wink Wink

perhaps if you give her up completely, she would come crawling back.. life is just that sadistic Confused

fire1980 SG

i feel like writing a letter to tell her how i feel... Crying or Very sad

smudgey SG

then do so...

if nothing else.... it can give you closure...

Mid9Sun SG

Or a little card.....

Agenda SG

ok do it,

as hypocritical as it sounds, try to express your true feelings fully in it and exaggerate abit Laughing

TYING SG

Do it once and for all. If she really turn you down, LET IT GO.

Ito_^ SG

wah.

so cute, quick go declare yer glorious love for her.

wait i go and say its sent by me. Laughing

fire1980 SG

erm.. what do u mean by that?
i really dun wan to lie to her

hiphop2009 SG

i can offer u gd advice~

first, u need to realise dat u need to let her go. really....no point sticking to her again, pple will gossip u de....

secondly, write her a letter to confess dat u are the one who sent her roses. in ur letter....u muz sound apologetic yeah? secondly, why nt apologize to her for bothering her so much? u irritated pple so much, u are in the wrong eh?

thirdly, from dere, u say u will still love her, but will sincerely wish her gd luck in finding her future bf yeah?

ur tone muz be correct, dun make it sound dat she owes u de....from dere, maybe u will hav a chance to be frenz with her again...

best of luck to u of course Wink

Yunhaier SG

Narcissistic.

You are like playing a one player game while fantasizing the bots are real time players.

Everything is about yourself.

Don't waste your time and money; doing things like this doesn't score any points, in fact, you are just making a big fool out of yourself.

You can't force love out of someone when there isn't any in the first place.

Learn to respect people's choice. Idea

Cheers

Darkness_hacker99 SG

eh maybe she could be touched and wanna give you a chance leh.

I think you should tell her.

fire1980 SG

Originally posted by Yunhaier:

Narcissistic.

You are like playing a one player game while fantasizing the bots are real time players.

Everything is about yourself.

Don't waste your time and money; doing things like this doesn't score any points, in fact, you are just making a big fool out of yourself.

[b]You can't force love out of someone when there isn't any in the first place.

Learn to respect people's choice. Idea

Cheers [/b]

thanks.. appreciated.
i know she didn't like me, and i intend to walk away after this...
but i finding it very difficult..

fire1980 SG

highly doubt that... if not.. she would not have ignore me still..
sometimes i wish i can just fess up and tell her the truth, but i think its not a good time, since i still pin for her all the time, and doing so would be only hoping that she has a change of heart.

R3SsH|n SG

remove all traces of her from yourself...
delete msn...phone contacts...gifts for her...emails...messages...everything...

it will definately help u forget her...

sheri SG

I can imagine, if a person I dun like (not say hate lah), keeps pestering me ...will be pissed off. But if a person I like pester me, it will never be irritating rite. It will be called loving. So dun be so harsh on yourself.

Silly or not its all in the past. Think err..u have zero chance lor. Just forget it and move on.

popmynutsy SG

wa like damn emo.
like tv show like this.
sell all ur items, starve for few days, buy her 99 red roses, dont tell her its from u, u faint from hunger, go hospital, ur friend told her the true story, she felt touch, then she likes u, then happily ever after.
Laughing

Yunhaier SG

Falling in love isn't like studying; there are times when you work hard and you fail miserably. It's not because you are not working hard enough, but rather, it's putting a wrong piece into a puzzle. Not matter how much you try forcing the missing piece into the puzzle, it just never turn out pretty.

Sometimes it amazed me to see guys not heeding rejection, thinking that it's a sign that they should work harder.

If Love could be obtain through sheer hard work, then the most hard working guy would have ALL the love in the world.

How easy (and amazingly boring) would that be, isn't it?

P.S: Learn to cut your loses. Finding it difficult to move on is a terribly bad excuse not to move along. If you would rather waste your time, effort and money onto someone who doesn't fancy you one bit, I suggest you find someone else who appreciate the real you. Idea

Cheers