confuse feeling

last SG · 2007-02-26T12:27:42+00:00

eh... i think u need to use your feeling to judge by confirm that she is interested in u 1st... then tell her.. but i think u should improve on the current s...

firehell2 SG

Hi, new here.
i know this girl for a long time time.
we do not talk to each other often but when i do talk to her, my heartbeat pump faster than normal. she seems rather cold to me thus i did not have the courage to woo her. Then a few days ago, i found out from her friends that she is quite concern abt me. (i not too sure she has feeling for me anot or just curious abt my backgroud). Even myself, i do not know i really like her or just some mixed feeling. i do not want to ask her directly. (i afraid of frghtening her and lost a friend like that). Any advise from the ppl here?

ifish SG

she concern about?

firehell2 SG

abt my background, family status, financial status etc........

beavan SG

she’s checking you out? wow that’s quite nice.

firehell2 SG

i'm not too sure whether she had a bf anot but i happen to saw her profile in friendster and it indicated " it complicated".........what does this mean?
Anyone can tell me?

beavan SG

well, why don’t u just chat her up? and find out more about her.

firehell2 SG

Originally posted by beavan:
well, why don't u just chat her up? and find out more about her.

How? like i say, she seems rather cold to me.........she dun seems to like talking to me.....sometime sms her oso no reply...... Sad

M©+square SG

No attraction = no hope. That is provided you're sure she's not attracted to you.

firehell2 SG

u could me rite..i'm thinking i shd just stay as it is...i can't confirm whether she like me or just "curoius" abt me..before i do anything rush else it be quite embrassed for both of us.

ifish SG

maybe u can progress out of the hi-bye friend first

huiz SG

just be normal friends with her first. dont think too much about the "does she like me?" or "do i like her?" part.

and lastly if you do like her, dont be a coward just bcos she is cold to you. gals like more initiative and aggressive guys than cowardly guys.

AndrewPKYap SG

I think "she seems rather cold to" you because her "heartbeat pump faster than normal" also.

Anyway just smile a lot at her and if you have a chance, ask her out with a group of people first.

Ask her what she like to do and ask her if you can join her activities. Good Luck!

firehell2 SG

i did try to ask her out on some occasion but it happen that she had appointment with her friend.....after that seems that she is quite busy....
like no fate with her after all Sad

Devil1976 SG

In what sense? Her friends... Are they your friends also? Do they know you're interested in her..? Are their words reliable?

Bontakun SG

You have your own life. She has hers. You cannot expect her to be ready when you are, right? Similarly you cannot be ready when she expected you to be too. These few tries may have 'failed', you just keep trying and trying.

mystee SG

not sure if this helps.. when i hold a liking for some guys, i will tend to be cold towards them... duno y.. maybe shy.. Embarassed so when i m very friendly with someone, meaning.. that person confirm no chance..

allentyb SG

women.......

ghimpheng SG

this show that women are VERY unpredictable

AndrewPKYap SG

Don't give up! Women take a long time to warm up. Once they are hot, it takes a lot for them to cool down.

Men heat up and cool down like hot water in the winter.

Continue to smile a lot and continue to ask!

firehell2 SG

oh.....does that mean i still have hope???
hear that she will be away for awhile..............