OMG !! The gal i like found out i like her !!

SingaporeMacross SG

Go for it before someone else does. The feeling when that happens really, really sucks.

allentyb SG

yay, next page, bump

dragoncloud SG

KNN OF COURSE YOU TELL HER!!!

SAME SITUTATION AS YOU 2 MONTHS AGO Crying or Very sad

I never tell her cause scare she avoid me. Now she just got a bf

Now i wan to tell her oso cannot Since that gal is available now cherish that chance.

HAIZ how i wish i can turn back time, How i wish i've told her. Now i see her and her bf together, i still have to laugh and joke Crying or Very sad YOU HOW HOW SAD IT FEELS!!!

TELL HER

Artiwizoras SG

Look on the bright side, I am somewhat in teh same situation as good. I think valentines is a good day for both of us to express it. xD!

Devil1976 SG

Cool... I know how you feel... Was in the same shoes about 16 years ago or so..? My best buddy made a suggestion to me back then which I thought was one of the most lousy... To just ADMIT to her... But I thought that's one of the best solutions I could have been given back then...?

Go... Go ADMIT to her... EXPRESS YOUR LOVE FOR HER... Then CRY OUT LOUD and LET EVERYTHING PASS....?

xDD SG

then make full use of 14 feb!

Bontakun SG

I dunno how old are you mature-wise, but I can honestly tell you: even if you tell her you love her, she ok and you two pak tor. Chances are you two will still break up in the end.

BUT that is only speculation. Nothing concrete. So you can carry on getting freaked out over not daring to do. Then once she is attached or she left your life, you will regret, saying that "Why didn't I tell her when I had the chance?".

ifish SG

totally agree.. half the battle lost if ur mentally unstable. learn it the hard way

Mr_ugly SG

* NEWS *

I already admit to her that i like her...she tell me that...it's better to be friends..... Crying or Very sad

BTW thanks to those Whose posting to give me advice...

Devil1976 SG

At least now ya know...? But better friends than nothing yup?

kIppEr SG

i'm second to it

sheri SG

No worries lah. There are lots of ugly men with gorgeous GF . And some really ugly guy tried to woo my pretty friend before too (and btw, failed). But that is not the point, even if you feel u are ugly, you are not the first ever ugly guy to woo a pretty – normal gal. U may get lucky / just get rejected. Females are not so visual, so maybe the best way is to socialize with her more, be humourous , caring to her. Its better than she liking u only for your looks bah.

Mr_ugly SG

Hehe...thanks alot =D

*Happy CNY*
*i had learned to let go what i like...coz i need to move on !! *

*Hooray!!*

LancerVII SG

Aiyo.. u dont give up hope la.. she nv avoid u... is a good sign... maybe she testing yur preserverance... or she really dont have feelings for u yet... or... she wanna know u better first... try to find a day, where only u and her... and talk to her how u really feel.. i believe, in yur heart sure got many words to tell her... but maybe due to the fact tat she is yur first beloved, or coz u kena rejected b4.. den u dont have the guts to tell her again... but... must face the fact... gather yur guts... tell her in yur most sincere manner... dont make up stories.. one time kena rejected, try again... dont give up... one day, she will be touched by yur sincerity and preserverance.. all e best.. Wink

edit: added some words..

DeepSpace SG

Even when two people are just friends, there always a chance that the friendship will blossom into something bigger Wink dont give up!

soulwinner SG

haha...It an opporunity.... Very Happy Then u can fianlly know her better

acegem84 SG

hmm noe as frends bah. it takes time to understand n noe whether she suits u n vice versa. Laughing

ifish SG

aiya.. since u all in same class no harm knowing each other better rite? if u like her, go for her.

But if she get close to you for the sake of dumping you, u know wad to do..

ask pervertboi or stookie to blanket party her

soulwinner SG

Hmmm … I think you will lose out if you continue to be in low self-esteem? Gal would one someone who can give them a sense of security…. So u guess u make be presistent… But make sure u don’t break the friendship…. I used to be very shy but now can relate well to most gals….

MS SG

I also had a crush on a girl when I was in Sec1. Even in Sec2 I still admired her secretly. Didn't reveal it for many years... before we left for tertiary education I didn't even have the guts to ask her out or take her tel number. Not even really have the guts to talk to her. I had to painfully let go that time & we didn't meet for 7 years. But now she's my wife. We got married close to 4 years ago during the SARS peak period. Don't know how, just that God performs miracles.

Ask her out as friends. Best if in a group. At least she don't feel uneasy. Leave everything to fate and start as friends. Don't rush into a relationship. If there's a chemistry, there's fate between the two of you, the relationship will come naturally. By the way, if you being ugly matters to the girl only then forget her. Your character, your capabilities are far more important than your looks.

Good Luck!!

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