Hi folks. 
To all the guys out here, especially all you Male Chauvinist Pigs,
have you ever went through a relationship where your girl, out of
nowhere, suddenly reveals that she is not exactly the innocent
puppy you imagined her to be? In a rough emotional jerk, you are
made aware that is she not as sexually naive as you thought she
was.
Remember the sheer heartpain you went through? The ache you were
receiving second-hand goods, if I may put it forth so
bluntly?
I was with her the other night in the middle of some heartland
park. We were being sexually active ; she was masturbating me and
as she did so, we discussed about our sexual past.
It was on that night that I confessed to her I wasn't a virgin. In
the earlier stages of our relationship I had lied and said I was
one.
She, in turn, too, confessed that she was not as pure as I had
imagined. Her ex-boyfriend had insisted on her giving him oral sex
and other sexual activities stopping short of copulation.
Naturally, being a possessive male, I felt a flash of hot anger. I
felt cheated, and though I revealed no outward emotional signs, my
mind was in a state of mental anguish.
That night, I went home and reflected.
I slowly realized that it wasn't fair for ourselves if I were to
suddenly treat her in a different light. We love each other very
dearly, and I am not going to compromise that and the trust,
comfort and faith we have in each other just because of things that
we have had no control over.
In this way, I had passed the test and now I love her all the more
because I have the innate knowledge that I can accept and respect
her no matter what her past. I think after this episode we shall
share an even closer bond with each other.
I am glad I had been tested this way.
So to all my brudder-brudder out there, don't feel cheated if you
feel you are getting a beautiful diamond that has lost some of its
shine, all the more if you are not a model of purity and chastity
yourself.
My only deep regret is I now do not have the chance to give up my
own "V" to her.
Cheers.
