Ray87 SG Do the right things, you stay in control, do the wrong things, you lose control. personally, i dun treat it as one, but as i experience more, i find it more and more like a game.
allentyb SG If you want to, try reading this book, its called - the game http://www.popmatters.com/books/reviews/g/game-penetrating-2005.shtml
blue_crimson_89 SG i'm quite sure my girlfriend believes in this.. she seems to like being loved and not having to give for it.. like when i give and give, she won't reciprocate.. she likes the feeling of other guys msging her and stuff when it's obvious that other guys like her.. sheesh.. girls.. 2 kinds of ppl believe dating is a game.. 1) like the feeling of ppl jio-ing them.. like wth passion-driven 2) watch too much or read too much romance.. esp girls who watch all those girls that get jio-ed by guys kind.. girl act blur and do wrong things to hurt the guy and not get blamed in the end cos it's the guy's fault or conversely..
curiousOrange SG I can say for sure that most women hate these games as much as you do. You dont need to act like a stupid jerk to keep them. You dont need to act like a gentleman to win them over. You just need to be you. All your questions about who is in control stem from one important question: Do you really need a woman to make you happy? If yes, the game will go on. You will more likely to be at the losing end. If no, you will find yourself doing the right thing most of the time. These women will be more than happy to quit the game. They will be doing most of the work to keep you.
akinos SG If it is a game? Can provide me some cheats and tips? It's up to an individual to see what dating is all about... There are many different views on different things. Not everything in life is fixed.
Marmalade Boy SG Depending on individual thinking... Majority would think it is a game due to the fact that they are still young and have immature thinking... Minority don't think its a game and wants a lasting one... At the end of day, be it a game or not... You wouldn't know till you have been with that person...
SGpork SG sometimes u do the right thing also...will be the wrong thing no..not a game for me... its a phrase of life for me
<Precious> SG Depends on how you want to think of it lor. Anything can be a game if you think of it that way wad.......
AndrewPKYap SG It is having a relationship to see if the two of you can get along with each other well enough to live together in the same house and sleep on the same bed for a lifetime. Unfortunately people change and the person you married might become a completely different person after a few years. There are no guarantees but it would be stupid to marry someone you cannot get along with during dating and hope that the other party change! They usually change for the worse (in terms of having a relationship with you) not better after marriage. So if you can't stand each other during dating, just know that it will be worse after marriage.
Chris1988 SG expensive game indeed. so expensive that i don't even dare to play. dating a game? sure it is. not that is marriage or anything.
M©+square SG You haven't tried going to a date which doesn't require you to fork out a cent? And your date offered to pay for every thing? Until you know how to work around without spending too much. You'll never enjoy dating and courtship.
